I got on the good brothas and told them the type of sistas to avoid so now it is the sistas turn. The following is a short list of brothas that good sistas should avoid. Please feel free to add on…… Help another sista out!
1. The Eternal PlayBoy
Old as hell and still trying to be a player. He refuses to let go of this player lifestyle that he has embraced since his youth. Now he is older and still thinks its 1995 in his mind and every woman wants him. He uses women to validate his self worth. He also thinks that he is smarter than you though he will never admit it. In fact he thinks that he is smarter than every woman and is smoother than ice. Tell him and his gators to slide away. Don’t waste your time and energy trying to convince him to be loyal to you because it won’t happen.
2. The Baby Daddy Drama Keeper
This guy has so many baby mamas that he can barely keep their names straight. If you do decide to hubby him up then realize that you are taking on his 3 or 4 different baby mama’s and whatever drama they have. Unless he is a damn good man or rap star paid like T.I. or someone of that financial caliber, it is not worth the drama.
3. The Whore
The guy who thinks his penis is golden and can do miracles. He thinks that his penis is enough to make you do anything he asks for and that you should never expect more. His mind state is something like this… “What more can you want? You getting penis. Isn’t that enough?” He would be the type of guy to avoid working and would rather have his woman take care of him. Get his want to be a pimp ass out of here.’
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The ones that like to live off your Dss checks and your section-8 lol.
The guy in the photo looks like T.I
Now the theme from ‘Shaft’ is in my head…WHY? Was there a pimp in the movie? SugaBear or was that ole dude on Starsky and Hutch? :lol2:
Lmao @ Lady. Disgusting aint it. Its so sad though that women even accept his type of treatment because all keep thinking is “I wish a Nucca would!!”. But then again (some) women accept this because they have low self-esteem and down expect any better. So sad.
:iagree: Here are a few more…
4. The emotionally unavailable man: This guy has a lot of emotional baggage due to prior dating experiences or “mommy” issues. He seems to always have his guard up, thereby hindering any real emotional connection.
5. The physically/verbally/emotionally and/or psychologically abusive man:
This one is pretty much self-explanatory. The psychologically abusive types could be very dangerous because it is so subtle. This guy may be the type to play “mind games” that could, over time, cause emotional damage to the recipient.
6. The “black women ain’t ****” man:
See Slim Thug’s recent discussion of black women for an example. This type of guy will not acknowledge that he either (1) only likes white women or (2) is possibly gay. Instead of acknowledging HIS true desires, he’d rather bash black women due to what “they’re not doing”.
that good, but for my self ( if i am female ) i will avoid what you have wrote above, everything is come from hearth, if your hearth love them and they are to just get them, i am sure our can change them in a good man/woman!
Empathetic D, I really appreciate your additions! :hifive: