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The singer’s contribution to husband Jay-Z’s “Part II (On the Run) scored a nod in the rap category helping to give Beyonce her 46th nomination, a number that ties her with country singer Dolly Parton.
Should Beyonce actually win, she will tie Aretha Franklin who has 18 wins, but trail bluegrass singer Alison Krauss who has 27.
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A video for ‘Grown Woman’ has been shot and to date I believe it’s the only new music the singer has performed on her ‘Mrs. Carter World Tour.’
Whatever the case, the song is hot and Beyonce’s best girl power anthem since 2008’s ‘Single Ladies.’
Watch her totally own her performance of the single below at last weekend’s Essence Music Festival.
Give it a listen below and let us know what you think.
Like Christina Aguilera and a host of other artists with new albums set to drop soon, Kelly Rowland is dealing with daily leaks of her upcoming material. Last week Shake Them Haters Off leaked and now this week we get Grown Ass Woman. The Ne-Yo penned and Stargate produced track is one of those singles Kelly says is meant to show her urban fan base that she has not forgotten about them. The question is- will urban radio return the favor and finally give Kelly some play with this new venture?
Let me give you some background:
A businessman approached me to do freelance work for his firm. He contributes to my employer’s website; so I’ve worked with him on occasion.
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Guy Number One
He was attractive, intelligent and all the ladies wanted him. I, being a lady, was no different. We flirt, talk on the phone and eventually start dating. A couple weeks later he comes to me saying, “Sorry, I just didn’t like you as much as I thought I did.” Ummm, okay?
Guy Number Two
Again, attractive, intelligent, every girl is trying to date him. We talk for hours on the phone every night. We hang out during the day. Months go by and still nothing. So, nervously, I ask, “So, are we talking?” His response: “Well, I wouldn’t say that.” Hmm, alright then.
Guy Number Three
Now he’s a bit different. Not all that attractive, but he’s sweet. Every girl isn’t checking for him, but he treats me like a queen, like he just cannot get enough of me. Life happens, we’re forced into different states. We reunite again after a few months. I’m finally back in his warm and familiar embrace. Me: “I still have feelings for you.” Him: “Well, me too, but I met someone else.” Ouch!
So, as the same scenario plays out in my love life over and over, an ugly untruth is secretly making its home where my self confidence use to reside: I’m not good enough. I was not good enough to be liked as much as one guy perceived; I was not good enough to even try being in a ‘pre-relationship’ with; and I was not good enough to be the victor in a past love vs. new fling duel.
Without me realizing it, this feeling has buried itself deep into my heart, and has grown and flourished over the years. Now, I finally meet Mr. Right who’s trying his hardest to love me, but the not good enough branches and leaves keep pushing his affection away.
So, fed up with myself and desperate to not lose the man I love, I did the unthinkable. I sucked up my pride, put my feelings on the shelf, borrowed some courage (from who knows) and asked each and every one of my old flames that awful, but necessary question: why?
I got closure and was finally able to move on. But now I’m wondering, should I have needed it? We all have bad experiences in the love department; it’s a part of life. But, as the story goes, we eventually find the perfect guy who is so wonderful and more than we could ever imagine that we instantly forget about our pasts. It’s like Lauryn Hill’s voice blasts through our minds: Nothing even matters at all.
But what happens when it does matter? What happens when you’re still holding onto past hurts and pains that your prince charming wasn’t able to sweep away? And worse, what about when your past starts affecting your future?
I’ve always thought that once I met the right guy, everything else in the past wouldn’t hold any value. Your present (and one day future) are all that matter now. So, does it say anything about your current relationship if your man wasn’t able to make you forget about your past? Or do we as women put too much responsibility on our future mates to clear out the skeletons in our closets when that’s a chore only we can/should do?
What do you think, Sistas? Is closure necessary in order to move on?
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Kelly Rowland and her label may not be able to agree on a release date for her upcoming album, but at least they have finally agreed on a name. According to published reports, Kelly has finally settled on the title “One Woman Show,” after previously having chosen the very underwhelming “Kelly Rowland.” Look for Kelly’s new project to hit record store shelves sometime this fall. In the meantime, you can download the album’s first three singles (Commander, Rose Colored Glasses, Grown Woman) from iTunes now.