… And I Should Care Because?
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Letter of Confession
I’m going to lay it on the line right here right now. I have a strong dislike to black women and even though I’m black myself, this doesn’t make the issue any easier. I think I might be prejudiced against my own black people, mostly black women. I don’t know where this came from, but it’s just there. My prejudice is mostly against black women. It’s because I see how some of them act these days. I see how young black women behave on the subways here in New York City and it just disgusts me. These young black girls have no kind of respect for themselves or others around them. This just makes me want to go up to them and just slap them. Most black women behave this way too. Most are just pushy, rude, bossy, obnoxious, and just a bunch of loud mouth bitches. They have this ghetto mentality and that’s what I don’t like. This makes me not want to date black women. Don’t get me wrong. My ex-wife is black, but she’s also from Trinidad. I just see how some of them behave on the Maury show and it totally blows my mind. They get on the show and they are just as loud and stupid as they can be. It’s really ridiculous. And then they want to fight when they get into an argument and that makes it worse. I was dating this black woman a while back and she just pissed a bitch when I didn’t arrive at a certain location. Well it was kind of my fault because I got confused on where to meet her. But she just got all upset and that left me frustrated. This is why I don’t want to be with anymore black women. They blow everything out of proportion. That shit pisses me off. I saw on the Maury show where this guy was proven to be the father of this black woman’s baby and she just started dancing around acting all niggerish. I just hated how she behaved and that’s how most black women behave these days. Those kinds of women you just want to beat the crap out of. I’m serious. Black women these days don’t know how to behave. I’m not saying all black women misbehave, but you know what I’m talking about. This is just one of thee things I don’t like about black women. The other thing I don’t like is the hair. Not a lot of black women have nice hair. A lot wear hair extensions or the ones I hate the most, dreads. I can not stand dreads whatsoever. Not at all. But I did dat4e a black woman with dreads. It wasn’t a pleasant thing, but I just tried to keep an open mind about that. But a few times, I asked her would she be willing to change her hair style. At the end of our relationship, she let me know how she felt about me asking her that. After we broke up, we tried to be friends. But we drifted apart and we just don’t talk to or see each other anymore. But I do know this for sure and I swear to the Holy Father in heaven, this is the Gods honest truth. I never want to date a black woman with dreads again. I cannot stand dreadlocks. That hairstyle is massively ugly and I find that very unattractive on a black woman. That hairstyle just makes me sick. The dreadlock hairstyle is not the hairstyle I mostly like. The European straight hair style is what I like to see on a woman. Black women don’t have the kind of hairstyle that I’m looking for on a woman. Some other black men may find dreadlocks attractive, but not me. I never will.
I recently looked at an old movie called Coming to America with Eddie Murphy. Now I haven’t looked at this movie for a while because it was a predominately black movie. But I forced myself to watch it because I haven’t seen it for a while and because it was a black movie. But it was still good at it was before. You see, I don’t watch a lot of black movies or TV shows. I don’t watch them primarily because of how the media portrays black people. Movies like Barbershop, Beauty shop, Boyz in the Hood, Juice, etc, you couldn’t get me to watch. I don’t watch movies like that because all they do is make black people look stupid and that’s something I want to avoid. I know I’m not stupid, so I don’t need to watch movies like that. I watch a lot more white movies and TV shows because they’re more appealing to me. I watch movies and TV shows like Laws of Attraction and Will & Grace. I absolutely adore Megan Mullally (Karen from Will & Grace.) She’s my favorite celebrity and actress. Black movies don’t appeal to me because black people are either portrayed as comedy reliefs or as criminals and that shit gets on my damn nerve. It’s like we’re rarely in any serious or good movies. The only serious black roles I like that I’ve seen are Will Smith and Martin Lawrence’s Bad Boys movies. At least in their movies, they’re not portraying stupid or criminal acts. Me, I’m a writer and one day I hope to be a successful movie director/ producer/ writer/ editor. I write scripts that cross the line of interracial. I write about interracial couples getting along and having happy lives together, but that doesn’t mea that the relationships I write about in my scripts don’t come with controversy. I believe this can happen if people would just have an open mind and ignore the skin color factor and remember that we are all human. We are all God’s children.
However, we all have our own preferences on the kind of person that we’d like to date or marry. Me personally, my ideal woman is the white woman. But that doesn’t mean that I’m not open to dating other cultures of women. I’m open to dating Asian, Indian, or other European women as well. The black woman is a woman that I never want to deal with ever again. It’s just too difficult to be with a woman like that. They just want too much from you, including most of your money. This might just sound stereotypical or be a fabrication or sound over exaggerated, but who knows what the truth is. But what I do know is that my preference is not the black woman. This is my truth. I’m not going to apologize for what kind of woman I prefer. And I also won’t apologize for any misconceptions that I may have on black women. But this is based on my past experiences and what I’ve seen. I’m not saying that Caucasian or Asian or Indian women are more pleasant. But I do look for pleasantry in a woman and I just feel that black women are not pleasant to be with. I’m not saying I want it both ways either because no one can have it both ways… well maybe if you’re lucky. What I believe is what I believe whether people like it or not. My preferences won’t change unless I change them myself.
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Kanyade said,
Two things: 1. This dude admits to watching Maury Povich and 2. He thinks Bad Boys 2 is serious acting.
GTFOH! You want to talk about self-hate look to this dude here. He all but says, I wish I were a white man. Lol. This letter to you was to make himself feel better by transferring his angst as well as it being a cry for help and most likely attention.
Dana said,
This dude I worked with many years ago used to tell me this stuff almost daily on our lunch hour. He would find me wherever I was just to tell me how he was tired of “OUR ****” and was going to get him a White girl. It took me many years to realize how sick he was and what he was doing was meant to personally make me feel bad about myself. He was a fine brother and eventually tried to get at me. I think he thought if he had me down and out I would feel honored as a Black woman to be chosen by him but I was not. He told me off too when I showed no interest. He said I was stuck up and that’s why brothers didn’t want us. Stephanie you have to school these young girls especially because they believe it when this ish is told to them. They then try to be superwomen taking whatever these no good *** men dish out just to prove they aint like what these men say.
Ms. Eritrea said,
This letter put an immediate smile of my face because I knew exactly what type of BOY he is. He is scared of a strong women, plain and simple. All black women are strong and BOYS are intimidated by that. As far as the hair comments, SO MANY white/hispanic/asian women wear extensions little does HE KNOW!
Oh and
“I believe this can happen if people would just have an open mind and ignore the skin color factor and remember that we are all human. We are all God’s children.”
How does me say this but bad talks Black Women!
He needs GOD in his life! I’ll pray for you boo, cuz you TRULY are missing out on the best thing in life “black women!”
Bateman E said,
he wanted you to get upset and respond to him because he has nothing better else to do than bring negativity into someone elses life
lady said,
I THINK US BLACK WOMEN R THE STRONGEST HUMAN BEING ON THIS EARTH. WE CAN JUGGLE ALOT AND GET IT DONE. NOBODY CAN DO WHAT A BLACK WOMEN CAN DO. IF THE SHOES WAS CHANGE WHITE WOMEN WOULD WANT THERE SHOES BACK FAST. HE JUST A COWARD INDIVIDUAL. I FEEL IF A BLACK MAN CAN NOT RESPECT BLACK WOMEN HE IS NOT RESPECTING HIS MOTHER.
Liyah said,
I ain’t even gonna read this.
summerbreeze said,
If you are reading this Brian, I would like to challenge your thoughts on the Black Woman please click this link and watch and listen to this:
A Black Woman’s Smile by Ty Gray El:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rPBH57BWhpE
Remember Brian, you come from a legacy of black women. A black woman created you and a black woman created her and so on….you serouisly need to check yourself. I hope you & everyone here on this comment page checks this out. Have a great weekend.
nia said,
I’m sorry girl, but you gave this dude exactly what he wanted - a response. That’s all negative people really want. They feel bad about themselves, so they figure if they can make other people feel the same way, it validates them. Video directors would not be able to put destructive images of women out there if these women would just stop coming to the casting calls! Men who don’t like black women would not feel the need to tell us if, everytime they did, we would just say, “Gon and get that white woman! I don’t want you anyway!”
summerbreeze said,
Brian if your reading this, I’d like to challenge your thoughts about the black woman. Please check this link out. We read your letter, so please check this out:3
A Black Women’s Smile By Ty Gray El:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rPBH57BWhpE
Brian you need to remember that a you come from a history of black women. Your mother is a black woman, her mother was black and so on….you really need to check yourself Brian. Please check out A Black Woman’s Smile and have a great weekend everyone here on Brown Sista!
Stephanie said,
Of course I gave him a response Nia, as should all Black women. It is the response you give that is important. Many Black women would have attempted to defend Black women all the while making this Black man think we need to be validated by them. LOL. Brian is one of those brothas who think his stock as a Black men is higher than our stock as Black women. I let Brian know he is no more on my radar than I am on his.
deena said,
God Bless the man! He really needs some serious one on one time with God. It’s so unfortunate to live life with such hang ups.
toosexy said,
I agree with the fact that he is SELF HATING and wishes he were white, He contridites himself in this letter so many times that you kinda feel sorry for him, I mean he don’t watch tv cuz they portray us bad but then he takes from the maury show and implies it to black women i think he could have maybe choose the wrong women but then again he has inside issues with himself and him as a person, he is clearly confused and not happy. anyway i will pray for him! also what exactly does he feel about his own mother and aunts?
Lady Gee said,
even if u didnt respond he would still feel like he had the upper hand. responding to A** doesnt make him right
nilah said,
As a black woman, I am offended only by one thing:
The fact that he so blatantly generalizes the black women he has either dealt with or seen one television with real black WOMEN.
He is very confused on the word WOMAN. A WOMAN, regardless of what ethnicty, is none of the sterotypes he mentions in his “confession”.
I hope and pray that he gets it straight. He may just attract ghetto girls, and when a true black WOMAN comes along, he may just shrug her off, assuming she’s like the rest.
Each and every WOMAN has strong feelings, beliefs, and expectations. If he cannot handle a strong woman, then what does he really want???
BRIANNA said,
[quote comment="19413"]Two things: 1. This dude admits to watching Maury Povich and 2. He thinks Bad Boys 2 is serious acting.
GTFOH! You want to talk about self-hate look to this dude here. He all but says, I wish I were a white man. Lol. This letter to you was to make himself feel better by transferring his angst as well as it being a cry for help and most likely attention.[/quote] 
OKAY! HE A STRAIGHT UNCLE TOM FO’ REAL! AIN’T HIS MOMMA BLACK! 
WILL AND GRAC?! 
AIN’T DAT A ***** HE COULDA AT LEAST SAID FRIENDS, DATS MY SHOW! BUT I STILL EMBRACE AND LOVE MY SIGNATURE FAT OL’ *** AND LIPS! I LOVE MY BLACKNESS! IMMA PRAY FO’ YA “BRIAN” 
!
JBL said,
This says it all right here. So many of these men out here think we should worship the ground they walk on and they think this because as Black women we are always elevating them and they are always letting us. The greatest thing you could have ever done is to post this and let Brian know he is not the center of your or our world. Brian came to you looking for elevation. He sho nuff wanted you to pander to him and beg him to date us. I have seen this type of sick Black man all my life. Let them know ladies that we don’t need or want them anymore than they want us. The same was Brian wants to exercise his dating options so have many Black women, myself includede. The day of the Black woman begging the Black man for his time and attention is over and Brian knows it.
BRIANNA said,
WILL AND GRACE!? DAT SHID IS FUNNY AS HELL
I CAN’T BELIEVE HE WATCHES DAT! 
Fran said,
Brian lives in New York and so do I. He is disgusted he says by the behavior of young Black women on the subway but I have to wonder how he feels about young Black brothas on the subway who exhibit the same and worse behavior than some of these young girls? I wonder how Brian feels about the unsafe state of The NYC Transit System that is full of young Black guys robbing people and acting like hooligans? The same disgusting behavior Brian sees in some young sistas he sees in brothas too but just as Dana said, brothas act like their **** don’t stink and that we should want them anyway. Black men have made Black neighborhoods unlivable via their drug dealing and overall violent behavior yet like all Black men they still think they are wanted and desired by us. Black men are in no position to throw stones. Their drop out and incarceration rate is sky high and until they can get that under control they can’t tell me nothin.
Nefertari said,
Sis I think he sent it to you because he is seriously mentally disturbed and is looking for someone to help him relieve himself of the chaos in his mind. IF he is actually black, and I seriously doubt that he is, he is suffering from an extreme self hatred. He was “confessing” to you, because he knows he is sick. What “Brian” needs to do is seek help from a competent psychiatrist who is sensitive to racial self-hatred (if such a thing exists). What Brian needs to KNOW is that Black women aren’t, or should not be, “checking for him” either. He could only serve to seriously mentally harm their black children in a horrible way. Shrug this sh9t off…he needed to confess to the “goddess”.
He knows the real deal beneath it all.
Brian, I hope you are reading this…RUN to a competent mental health professional. You really need to address your issues.
MZN said,
I am going to have to agree with Fran 100%. I live in Brooklyn and I see the same things. The way these guys approach BW. Then have the nerve to get angry when we don’t want to give them the time or day. Makes me sick. A lot of these brothas out here are very childish and immature. Not even taking life serious! Sitting around playing video games all day with no job. Our people are in a bad state as a whole. Not all of us, but a lot of us are. I see those same girls on the NYC subway dancing on the poles, like strippers, and loud and ridiculous. Which does make BW look very unattractive. And then wears these God awful hair extensions. Some of the letter, I disagree with. Especially the dating part. But some of it I do have to agree. But like I said, it goes both ways. Both BM and BW need to get it together. It seems like BM and BW are at odds with each other and I cannot see where things are going to get better.
Fabchic said,
This guy is a JOKE!!! Brian might be upset because no decent black woman is checking for his UGLY A$$!!!
So in turn BRIAN has decided to write us black women off…Better for us anyway. :dance2:
Hey BRIAN if youre reading this post you can kiss my natural black
!!!
Nita said,
What the hell….This guy has some very serious issues. He hates black women. Does that mean he also hates his mother, whom I assume is also a black woman? Would he hate his own daughter if he has one? And I agree with Brianna who said, ” He all but says, I wish I were a white man. All black women are not ignorant as he thinks. This brotha needs to check himself and seek counseling. I am not sure what type of black women he has been involved with, but I can assure him that they are not the epitome of what a black woman is. And furthermore, he mentioned how black women behave on the Maury Povich show. Well, he must have taken a bathroom break and missed viewing how the caucasian women and men act. Maybe this brotha needs to take a course in African American History and then maybe he will learn to appreciate beautiful black women.
GERARD said,
HEY, LADIES
I LOVE MY BLACK WOMAN. IF IT WASN’T FOR SEVERAL BLACK WOMEN, I WOULDN’T BE THE MAN I AM TODAY. I LOVE THE VIDEO BY Ty Gray El: I WEAR A PICTURE OF MY GRANDMOTHER ON MY SWEATSHIRT AND AT THE BOTTOM IT SAYS “MY HERO” THOUGH ,SHE MAY NEVER APPEAR ON A U.S. STAMP. SHE HAS A STAMP IN MY HEART. THAT STAMP CAN’T BE MOVED, TOUCH AND MOST OF ALL YOU CAN’T PUT A PRICE ON IT FOR DELIVERY. DELIVERY HAS BEEN MADE AND AT THE MOST PRECIOUS TIMES…” IN MY LIFE”. THIS SITE IS AWSOME. HEY- YOU GUYS FORGOT TO PUT CEECEE WINANS ON THE SITE. LOL. KEEP YOUR HEADS UP MY BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN. I ENJOY YOUR BEING, AND BEAUTY. STAY WELL.
GOD BLESS,
GERARD
S. Dot said,
He wants a reaction. He wants to see Ghetto. But you know what I got news for Brian. A lot of my girls are White and they can get just as Ghetto and Loud like the black girls. They go and get Weaves and fake nail just like the black women. So you what, HIS LOST!!! :)
Because the White Men LOVE US SISTA’S TOO!!!!!!!!!!! :P
lady said,
THANK U GERARD THERE IS ALOT OF BROTHERS LIKE YOU THAT LOVES THEM SOME BLACK WOMEN HE JUST OFF HIS MED LOL. BUT THANKS AGAIN.
EVERYONE HAVE A GREAT LONG WEEKEND.
Amber said,
BRIANNA,
HE A STRAIGHT UNCLE TOM FO’ REAL! AIN’T HIS MOMMA BLACK!
See this is what? happen’s when you’re into “Scientology” crazy ****! you start thinking crazy,talking crazy and you lose control of yourself….
He need’s to see his psychiatrist very fast!
Nikki said,
This brokeup *** negro just contradict himself on sooo many levels. FALL BACK!!
D. Lewis-Thompson said,
What a loser! He just had to send this to a site for black women to try to put us down so that he can feel better about his low self esteem.
trisha said,
I bet he isn’t really black, he sounds like some racist who fell upon this site and was angry to see somebody tring to show love and celebrating our women. He needs to get life and go check for some white lover website.
D. Lewis-Thompson said,
D. Lewis-Thompson said,
Butta said,
This dude is a clown and he needs counseling. I couldn’t even get halfway through his silly tirade. But seriously, he needs some sort of professional help to deal with his self-hating issues. Because any black man who hates black women to this extent essentially hates themselves. Furthermore, I’m quite concerned that he speaks of slapping women and beating the crap out of them. Not cool at all.
Brokey McPoverty said,
i wouldn’t have even given him the satisfaction of posting this for other ppl to see.
dottie said,
KSH said,
Very sad…I really feel sorry for the brother first b/c he watches Maury and second b/c he is missing out a lot of love by shutting out the very fabric that created him. I see a lot of ignorant people - black women too but I know that every black woman is not like that, I see a lot of ignorant black men. men that don’t care of their kids and like rims better than hepling get their kids braces - but I have strong black man for a husband b/c I did not shut out my race b/c of bad relationships. I have an open mind and I have dated all races and I don’t judge an entire race on the stupidity of a few people
Black man X said,
Well maybe you’re taking this letter a little too seriously, reading that letter my conclusion is that he wanted to let some steam out and open up in hopes that things might change. B/c believe you me, as a black man, I know tons of black men who feel the same way. One big misconception that a lot of black women have towards black men dating white women is that black women think that black men find black women to be “ugly”. Or my favorite, “They can’t handle a strong black woman!” That nonsense just makes me laugh. I love my black women, but as a black man, this guy is speaking the truth. What turns off descent black men such as myself and a lot of others about black women is that damn ghetto “sista girl” mentality which is based on degrading the black man. Likewise how the “gangsta” or “pimp” mentality degrades black women, this sista girl mentality that black women have is driving away all the good brothers. The sista girl mentality promotes a good black man is one who: Drives an escalade on 24 inch rims that he has on layaway, money to pay a woman’s rent, the latest style of nonsense expensive clothing that goes out of style a month later, and one who wears the latest pair of $200 sneakers. And don’t forget that the “sista girl” mentality also promotes a submissive man towards his woman who is okay with taking care of kids that are not his and doesn’t mind a woman that refuses to cook for him. And if a black man doesn’t have all of those things then he is somehow a loser and less of a man when in reality: MAN MAKES THE MONEY, MONEY DOESN’T MAKE THE MAN. And in a society where the black man is the most disrespected and the most hated thing that is suffering from high unemployment, it is very rare to see a black man who is able to afford all of that. But that is the mentality that a lot of black women have and when a black man sees that, he gets turned off by it and runs to white and asian women for support. Maybe the guy wrote this letter b/c since this is a forum for black women by black women, he hopes to receive some answers and maybe want a black woman let him know that there is still good black women out there. And this is an excellent forum to talk about these issues. B/c as racist as this society is towards the black man, the black man don’t even have his own women to support him anymore since a lot of black women want to go off into this “sista ghetto girl” spirit all while falling for that lesbian women’s rights movement, and putting that above the uplifting of her race. I think issues like these should be talked about more and what should be done about should be talked about on this site also since this is a website for black women.
Gorgeous Black Women said,
:dance2: Chuck and jive somewhere else.
iris said,
@ black man x,
i’m sorry your words don’t resonate with me. more than 10% of black men are in the penal system (prison, parole, probation.) black women make up half the new aids cases in the united states and they get it from heterosexual sex with black men. black men and white woman are not the leading interracial couple, they are number two. (asian woman/white man). i really would like to open a dialogue with you because i am mystified by black men. black men denegrate black women constantly. but for me it doesn’t come out in the wash. please help me understand.
mo'star said,
This guy and every other man who thinks that all black women are mean, ugly and rude were absolutley abused by their mother, aunts and grandmother. no changing my mind on that. Not all black women are ghetto; not all white women have class. the same goes for men. Whatever white woman he dates needs to watch out for his broke wanna-be writer/producer ***before he wipes out her bank account.
Black man X said,
@ Gorgeous black woman, so what if my mom and my sister are black women. How does that take away the fact that what I’m saying is correct?
and @ iris, the rate of black men in the prison system is way higher than 10%. And why do you think black men endup in prison so fast? B/c they are systematically forced in prison. Since this is a society which is based on education and how the education fails young black men, and how there is high unemployment amongst black men, alot of black men are systematically forced to do things for financial means. And this would go to any person that is in a position in which they cannot find a descent job, and haven’t had an education; when one is forced in this position, that person would do whatever it takes to survive. And as far as the black man is concerned, a lot resort to selling drugs and stealing as a means of feeding themselves.
And don’t believe that nonsense about the reason why black women has the highest rate of aids is b/c of this “DL” crap. That stuff isn’t even proven and is a bunch of lies by the media in order to make the black man look like a villain and a ****** at the same time. As a matter of fact recent studies have shown that homosexual men have the lowest rate of HIV/Aids in recent years so how could this damn “DL” thing be the cause of black women catching aids?
iris said,
as far as brian, he should date who he wants to date. no one is stopping him. I’m 31 and i haven’t been asked out by a black man since high school. but other men think i great so i wish brian and any other black man who refuses to date black women well. good luck.
iris said,
if black women attend the same schools as black men but have double and triple the amonts of college degrees, where does that put your point.
as far as economically forced into crime, they could work at mcdonalds and go to school at night like many black women have to do.
i’ll let the aids discussion lapse because it doesn’t make or break my point that if any one is undesirable it should be black men. but i do not hear large amounts of black women, coming out saying how much they hate or won’t date black women.
black man x - your telling me because a small portion of black women “act ghetto” black women are undesirable?
Black man X said,
“if any one is undesirable it should be black men”—– another example of this “sista girl” mentality in which they look down towards their own men. Yeah a black man could work at mcdonalds and go to college at night but when he graduates, who would hire him? It came out a while back that 85% of black men in the US with a college degree has just as much as a hard time finding a job as a black man without a college degree. Why is that? B/c white people who runs corporate america refuses to hire them.
And don’t lie and tell me that nonsense that “there aren’t a large portion of black women coming out and saying how much they hate or won’t date men” Look at what these black women say about their own men, “Look at this dumb *ss n*gg@!”. And how about a brother that is doing positive things with himeself, what do black women always say about them: “This n*gg@ think he’s white, he think he’s better than everybody”. The actions of most of these black women and the things they say about black men is enough for the black man to know that these black women are messed up.
This’ll be my last comment on here b/c I see that there is a high concentration of the in-denial virus spreading over here. I’ll just end it with this saying: If someone is sick, in order to cure that sickness one must know the disease they have. But if a person refuses to acknowledge that they are sick then the disease will only get worst.
Black men and black women are very sick in today’s society and not acknowledging our sickness will eventually lead us to extinction!
dark sista said,
brian got exactly what he wanted some atention there he has a topic entirely dedicated to him with some black folks that are ready to get each other in a milimeter second
In 2008 i wont respond [and by way of consequences encourage] ignorance
shonuff said,
sweet minty jesus. i had several reactions in a matter of seconds: is he really black? who admits to watching muray? why lawd why are black people always responsible for each others actions? it one person defines a whole group of people timothy mcveigh should have had us all shooting 30something white me in the face on sight.
bless this brothers heart can you imagine how sh*tty his life has and will be?
Frank said,
^^^Right :confused:
It’s best if we get at each other over more important issues like Rihanna’s new handbag or how Beyonce is “everywhere” and needs to take a break
Frank said,
Mr. Brian is obviously suffering from self-hatred and can’t nothing cure that like a hardcore reality check! He’ll feel the heat when he tries to be accepted by his lovely, innocent, beautiful, perfect (sarcasm) white woman’s family and they remind him that he ain’t nothin’ but a N-GGER
Will he still feel the same way about his black sisters then. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
As for the black brothers on the DL :hmph: It is hella real and these brothers are getting harder and harder to detect.
Some of you sisters need to be real real real concerned about your man/husbands/baby daddies
All I have to say is watch out for those brothers that want to “explore” all types of sexual positions and conditions with you especially the 
and… (let me stop there before I get my comment deleted).
And, yes ladies, I am GAY and FAB-O-LOUS (no imposter here)
Amera Nia said,
I feel sorry for him. I would love to send him a email telling him just that. The fact that he watches the Maury Show says so much about him, that he is obviously not that educated nor is he a very good producer or director, because if he were he’d know that most of those people on that show are actors/actresses. Its black men like that, i feel give black men a bad name. Yes there are the thugs and fools that act like they have no sense, but at least they love their people and know where they came from, a strong black woman. I wonder how his mother would feel if she read this. Sistas! We are beautiful no matter what the media says or how others may see us…GONE ON BE DIVAS!
Theresa said,
My comments are directed mainly to Black Man ‘X’. First, you suggest that Brian who wrote the letter maybe did so in the hopes of opening up a dialogue with black women and bringing about some type of change. No one with an ounce of manners or decency opens up a dialogue by insulting and degrading the very group of people he is supposedly trying to reach out to. Unfortunately, it has become typical of many black men to constantly hurl insults at black women in any forum, and then expect us to turn around and welcome them with open arms and sympathy. You also bring out the old, tired excuse that black women only want “ghetto or gangsta-type” black men. I have many smart, single intelligent black female friends and NOT ONE of them is in the least bit interested in this type of man. In fact, some of them couldn’t even tell you what a “gangsta” is if they tried. Black men need to be honest and admit that they are simply more attracted to women who are white, Asian or lighter-skinned because they have not bothered to think critically in terms of the images broadcast by the mainstream, sexist media.
Lastly, this is a site that uplifts black women and offers them positive images and views about themselves. Yet you are suggesting that the owner now entertain these types of dialogues from black men. Well, I hope she never does. Because then it will only become yet another site where black men come to insult and sound off against black women and give them something else to feel bad about. Black women deserve to have autonomy and to talk about positive issues that are central to them - without black men or anyone else barging in and leaving their twisted, self-hating mantras lying around. Thank you.
Nef said,
@Black Man X….
I don’t doubt that there are some women who think the way you have described—but I think a larger part of your problem may be that you have encountered only women from a certain social class (I don’t like to use the phrase “ghetto girls” but there it is….and you have attributed their behavior to ALL black women. You are limited in your experiences and so you are limited in your analysis.
Most of the black women I know do not think or behave in the way you have described. Most black women stand beside their black men through a great many hardships.
It is wrong for you to put a blanket statement out like you have.
When I was 19, I married a 30 year old black man who proceeded to beat me and abuse me for the next 12 years. Now if I then said “ALL BLACK MEN ARE LIKE THIS” I would be wrong. I would also be single because I would have missed my wonderful husband (new one not the old a$$hold) while I was walking around faulting all blackmen.
I also know a great many black men who are only attracted to a certain type of woman. They LIKE the “round the way girls” they like the half-naked hoochies who look like video hoes….then they sound exactly like you when the females they have chased, turn out to be exactly what they are.
I think we all have to take responsibility for our choices. IF you aren’t willing to do that, then you will continue to suffer, but don’t blame all black women. Blame yourself. Make better choices in women.
Theresa said,
Nef, I concur 100% with your comments. Unfortunately too many of us refuse to think critically or with a broad-mind when it comes to judging each other - we take a few bad experiences and use that as an excuse to dismiss each other in relationships. You only have to read the first few lines of Brian’s e-mail to see that he is obviously EXTREMELY limited not only in his choices of women, but also in his choices in entertainment, lifestyle, etc. And it is too bad that Black Man X who started somewhat positively, also quickly degenerated into the same mold with his half-baked statistics and usual stereotypes against black women.
MeShelle, Wash, D.C. said,
Peace, Love, and Happiness to you Brian.
TO ALL MY BLACK BROTHA’S (THERE IS TRULY NO LOVE LIKE A SISTA’S LOVE.) IF YOU FEEL YOU BEEN HURT, OR BETRAYED MOVE ON. ACCEPT THE FACT THE RELATIONSHIP DIDN’T WORKOUT FOR WHAT EVER REASON. NO NEED TO DISPLAY YOUR HATRED. LIFE GOES ON
Vinsanity said,
I agree a little bit in certain points but i love black women, they are so lovely and so beautiful.
Majesa said,
There will always be ignorant people out there that have nothing else to do but try to bring someone else, or in this case, a lot of people down in order to validate themselves, their ignorance, and their very low self esteem. I skimmed through a lot of the paragraphs, and his email, but I get the gist of it. He wrote it to you because he wants you to react negatively and get angry. Make him feel better, and make him feel justified. It doesn’t make me angry at all. That’s what all racists, sexists, and hateful people do. I’ve spent some of my youth (the youth that I’m very much still in) and I’m still spending it promoting equality, diversity, and love of all different kinds of people, cultures, religions, sexualities, all of it.
As a young black woman, I love myself and I’m quite proud of who I am. I’m smart, capable, beautiful, and wonderful. I don’t assume anything about anyone based on race or whatnot, and I encourage everyone I know and meet to do the same. Keep an open mind. I’m open to all kinds of men when it comes to dating, I have no ‘preference’. A good man is a good man, no matter what color his skin is. A good woman is a good woman, no matter the color of hers either.
Men like this ‘Brian’ character are sad within themselves I believe, and they know it. I pity people like that, and I feel sorry for them. I don’t hate them. I pity them. I’m no Christian, but as some of the old would say “Bless his little soul.” I hope this guy gets himself together one day and really does something about his mental sickness, because whether he knows it or not, the only person he’s really hurting and aiming the gun at is himself.
Des said,
Brian, I sure hope you feel better now.
For someone who’s future consists of becoming the “Endangered Human Species” you sure have a lot of nerve. Your hateful energy could have been redirected and used towards something far more productive. But you have CHOSEN to go the destructive route.
In this great big ole world filled with millions of people from hundreds of different backgrounds, upbringings and class systems, you see it fit to generalize a whole race of people on your personal experience in the “hood.” How very small of you.
Now, I could understand your crazy ramblings if and only if you were well traveled and had studied groups of Black Woman around the world - in every hut, house, and mansion or project apartment. But, instead your data is based on your personal experience with one Black Woman and your observation of SOME young Black female youth on the “A” train.
Your letter to Brownsista wasn’t a cry for help or understanding. You flat out meant to be mean, nasty, degrading and hurtful. Unfortunately, your tirade and degradation of Black Women didn’t start here and it certainly won’t end here.
You talked about becoming a writer and director. Well, the media is the perfect outlet to spew your hate and venom. You will definitely be in line with the all-true and all real conspiracy to destroy, degrade and humiliate the Black Female via the blue tube. Your CHOICE to do this is a conscious one and you are bound to reap what you sow.
Your letter is also degrading to white/European women. You will only date a white woman, not because you genuinely like her or you guys have a lot in common. No, you want a white woman simply because she is white, simply because you have been brainwashed to believe that she is perfect, docile and cooperative. Well, what’s going to happen when you finally date a white woman and you realize that many of them are not as passive as the media has portrayed and that she too is human and has faults? You mentioned that you love “European hair” and you hate Black Women’s hair. Does that mean you hate your own hair too? Would you be able to deal with strands of European hair in your shower, tub, bathroom sink, bed, pillow, on your clothes, on the kitchen counter or even in your food? Will you talk about how much you “hate” European hair then?
Have you ever been to the ghettos of Ireland, Great Britain, Russia or any poor European country? Because, I can assure you that you will see the EXACT type of behavior from White women, men and children that you see from Black women, men and children in the ghettos of Chicago, New York, Los Angeles, etc.
Since you’re from New York, have you ever witnessed the loud, disrespectful, inebriated, behavior exhibited by young/professional White women on Friday and Saturday nights in the “village” as they party it up or on the NYC Subway on their way home from the bar?
Have you ever been to an Italian American of Jewish American home only to witness the violent turmoil between family members? Have you ever been witness to an old Jewish woman verbally degrade her husband in public? Or, have you ever had to sit and listen to White men tell you how much they hate their wives?
But, somehow Brian, you and so many of our Black brothers seem to think that White people are perfect and that all of your problems would be over if you can only get you a White woman. But be careful my friend, because she knows her worth and she knows that all she has to do is make one phone call and you are as good as dead.
I agree, Frank, the grass is not always greener on the other side.
BadGirl23 said,
He can’ be serious
Amber said,
Brian probably was on his period :confused:
TAMIKO said,
Hey, first I would love to say this is a beautiful site for the strength of BLACK WOMEN YOU CAN SEE AND LOVE!! AMEN!
As for the boy that wrote the e-mail well…. he has no name and no existence for that he himself has wiped away and I dare not call him X for that is in correlation with a real MAN! Malcolm X, you see when someone has self hate anything in reflection of that hate will disturb them and when one finds beauty in what they hate the most, well they will hurt the most!!! the mere fact that the boy came to this sight and had nothing positive to say is the mere key that WE AS BLACK WOMEN HAVE POWER OVER HIM!- Truthfully if he were to look at his reasons for him disliking black women he then would understand why The white MAN THAT IS RACIST HATE HIM! And therefore that makes them BROTHERS THAT SHARE THE SAME SHEETS OF FABRICS! WITH MEDIA HYPE! NO FACTS AND SELF HATE! WITH NOTHING BUT HOLES! CARVED OUT TO SEE WHAT THEY WANT TO SEE!! Hmmm so I say let him try and speak for his voice is not heard by women LIKE US BLACK WOMEN! BEAUTIFUL, BOLD, TRANSITIONAL, BLACK WOMEN, HMM 400YRS! IN THIS COUNTRY HAS PROVEN US TO BE SO!!!
TO THE BOY THAT WROTE THE E-MAIL- I’m proud of your confession for you took the sheet off unlike your brother- that I CONGRATULATE YOU! IT LESS COWARDNESS AND MORE THOUGHT! Oh yeah you leaving the pool from dating BLACK WOMEN IS NOT A LOSS BUT A GAIN FOR OUR SALVATION!! WE DON’T WANT YOU!!! PEACE, LOVE AND HAPPINESS!
SheaButta said,
I feel sorry for him because not only does he hates black women ,he also hates himself. Black people are shown in negative ways through the media,videos, and every where else. Black people are so use to being seen in a negative light that we are starting to hate ourselves. No relationship is perfect no matter what race you are. He has had a lot of bad relationships with black women because he never wanted to date them in the first place. But he will meet a white woman with the same negative characteristics that he claim that only black women have, and he is going work hard at making that relationship work because he is with a white woman. I say go ahead and date other women besides black women, maybe it’s meant for him to date and marry a white woman. But I have dated a lot of no good black men, but I would never judge all black men based on my personal experiences. It’s all about being patient and God will send you the right person. I say if he is attracted to women with long silky hair, white skin, with a great personality go ahead and get what you want. But please stop the hatred toward black women because you can’t judge a whole group of women based on the handful you have encountered. If he just start loving himself more he would not only start to have respect and love for black women but love for his whole Black race. I still love you brother and everything will be OK!
Daba said,
This is not a black man,but some SICK A$$ white man or white woman who stumbled upon this site.
Lola said,
I won’t be long, I’ll just talk about…….Black women the least desired women on the planet?
This post’s goal is to PROVE THAT NO WE ARE NOT THE LEAST DESIRED WOMEN on the planet.
David Bowie married Iman.
Robert DeNiro’s wife is black.
Heather Headley’s HUSBAND is white.
Paul Wall’s WIFE is black.
Actor Rick Gonzalez’ WIFE is black.
Halle’s man is white.
Actress ALFRE WOODWARD’s husband is white.
It was EUROPEANS who gave their chances to Tyra Banks, Naomi Campbell, Alek Wek, Liyah Kebedeh, Iman, Grace Jones and the list goes on, and made them top models. So if we’re not loved and venerated why did THEY celebrate black beauty?
And last but not least, ASIAN MEN love black women, you wanna know how I know? I MARRIED ONE, we’ve been married for 3 years to a Korean-American guy. And he’s always been attracted to black women. They’ve always ADORED us. Basically, look at this video and then tell me you still doubt :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIbxxH3ZcCg
THE MEDIA doesn’t talk too much about it but it’s everywhere, open your eyes and you will see. And I’ve been to Thailand, Japan and Korea black women who go study there (I study oriental languages) are wooed by asians 24/7, date and MARRY asians over there, there ARE black/asian children over there. I’ve met my husband there and he was on vacation visiting his family, he was american like me. So yeah we live in the US. But I’ve seen asians, men and women, wear braids and lock their hair even, fans of Bob Marley Lauryn Hill and James Brown, if you go abroad you’ll see for yourself. One of my friends is phillipino and engaged to a sista. It’s to the point where IKEA took notice and did a commercial with an Asian Man and Black Woman JUST RECENTLY with their black/asian CHILD I don’t know if y’all seen it but I’ve seen it like last week on TV. For the first time I’ve seen my couple represented. My husband said asian men have ALWAYS loved the Halle’s and Naomi’s but feared to cross the color barrier just like WE sistas did cause it used to be a taboo.
This is LOVE too : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XAAj32IsdPI
So yeah, white men, asian men, and also indians, who share the same “skin shades” than we blacks do, LOVE US and start more and more to MARRY US.
See some black men STEREOTYPE US (it’s been once again confirmed here) and run to white girls downing the very ones who carried them and their wombs, fed them, clothed them, loved them, and the FUNNIEST thing is that they can’t stand when sistas jump the color barrier. I didn’t date and marry an asian man “because I hate black men”, but I’ve decided that I just would stop discriminating, life is TOO SHORT, and just take what life gives me black white green or red, as long as the LOVE and RESPECT are there. I’ve found it in my husband, and I’m the happiest woman in the world, and IRONICALLY he’s the ONLY man who’s never PUT A STEREOTYPICAL LABEL ON ME BASED ON MY SKIN. Not to mention that his parents accepted me with open arms.
So yeah Brian, keep dissing us, cause there are billions of other men out there, and I woke up like 5 years ago…
Lola said,
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Lola said,
I won’t be long, I’ll just talk about…….Black women the least desired women on the planet?
This post’s goal is to PROVE THAT NO WE ARE NOT THE LEAST DESIRED WOMEN on the planet.
David Bowie married Iman.
Robert DeNiro’s wife is black.
Heather Headley’s HUSBAND is white.
Paul Wall’s WIFE is black.
Actor Rick Gonzalez’ WIFE is black.
Halle’s man is white.
Actress ALFRE WOODWARD’s husband is white.
It was EUROPEANS who gave their chances to Tyra Banks, Naomi Campbell, Alek Wek, Liyah Kebedeh, Iman, Grace Jones and the list goes on, and made them top models. So if we’re not loved and venerated why did THEY celebrate black beauty?
And last but not least, ASIAN MEN love black women, you wanna know how I know? I MARRIED ONE, we’ve been married for 3 years to a Korean-American guy. And he’s always been attracted to black women. They’ve always ADORED us. Basically, look at this video and then tell me you still doubt :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIbxxH3ZcCg
THE MEDIA doesn’t talk too much about it but it’s everywhere, open your eyes and you will see. And I’ve been to Thailand, Japan and Korea black women who go study there (I study oriental languages) are wooed by asians 24/7, date and MARRY asians over there, there ARE black/asian children over there. I’ve met my husband there and he was on vacation visiting his family, he was american like me. So yeah we live in the US. But I’ve seen asians, men and women, wear braids and lock their hair even, fans of Bob Marley Lauryn Hill and James Brown, if you go abroad you’ll see for yourself. One of my friends is phillipino and engaged to a sista. It’s to the point where IKEA took notice and did a commercial with an Asian Man and Black Woman JUST RECENTLY with their black/asian CHILD I don’t know if y’all seen it but I’ve seen it like last week on TV. For the first time I’ve seen my couple represented. My husband said asian men have ALWAYS loved the Halle’s and Naomi’s but feared to cross the color barrier just like WE sistas did cause it used to be a taboo.
Lola said,
I won’t be long, I’ll just talk about…….Black women the least desired women on the planet? (I guess I’m gonna have to seperate it in different parts)….
This post’s goal is to PROVE THAT NO WE ARE NOT THE LEAST DESIRED WOMEN on the planet.
(part 1) :
David Bowie married Iman.
Robert DeNiro’s wife is black.
Heather Headley’s HUSBAND is white.
Paul Wall’s WIFE is black.
Actor Rick Gonzalez’ WIFE is black.
Halle’s man is white.
Actress ALFRE WOODWARD’s husband is white.
Actress Garcelle Beauvais’ HUSBAND is white.
It was EUROPEANS who gave their chances to Tyra Banks, Naomi Campbell, Alek Wek, Liyah Kebedeh, Iman, Grace Jones and the list goes on, and made them top models. So if we’re not loved and venerated why did THEY celebrate black beauty?
Lola said,
(part 2) :
And last but not least, ASIAN MEN love black women, you wanna know how I know? I MARRIED ONE, we’ve been married for 3 years to a Korean-American guy. And he’s always been attracted to black women. They’ve always ADORED us. Basically, look at this video and then tell me you still doubt :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIbxxH3ZcCg
THE MEDIA doesn’t talk too much about it but it’s everywhere, open your eyes and you will see. And I’ve been to Thailand, Japan and Korea black women who go study there (I study oriental languages) are wooed by asians 24/7, date and MARRY asians over there, there ARE black/asian children over there. I’ve met my husband there and he was on vacation visiting his family, he was american like me. So yeah we live in the US. But I’ve seen asians, men and women, wear braids and lock their hair even, fans of Bob Marley Lauryn Hill and James Brown, if you go abroad you’ll see for yourself. One of my friends is phillipino and engaged to a sista. It’s to the point where IKEA took notice and did a commercial with an Asian Man and Black Woman JUST RECENTLY with their black/asian CHILD I don’t know if y’all seen it but I’ve seen it like last week on TV. For the first time I’ve seen my couple represented. My husband said asian men have ALWAYS loved the Halle’s and Naomi’s but feared to cross the color barrier just like WE sistas did cause it used to be a taboo.
This is LOVE too : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XAAj32IsdPI
So yeah, white men, asian men, and also indians, who share the same “skin shades” than we blacks do, LOVE US and start more and more to MARRY US.
See some black men STEREOTYPE US (it’s been once again confirmed here) and run to white girls downing the very ones who carried them and their wombs, fed them, clothed them, loved them, and the FUNNIEST thing is that they can’t stand when sistas jump the color barrier. I didn’t date and marry an asian man “because I hate black men”, but I’ve decided that I just would stop discriminating, life is TOO SHORT, and just take what life gives me black white green or red, as long as the LOVE and RESPECT are there. I’ve found it in my husband, and I’m the happiest woman in the world, and IRONICALLY he’s the ONLY man who’s never PUT A STEREOTYPICAL LABEL ON ME BASED ON MY SKIN. Not to mention that his parents accepted me with open arms.
So yeah Brian, keep dissing us, cause there are millions of other men out there who adore us, and I woke up like 5 years ago.
Lola said,
Ok I can’t seem to be able to post part 2
Lola said,
(part 2) :
And last but not least, ASIAN MEN love black women, you wanna know how I know? I MARRIED ONE, I’ve been married for 3 years to a Korean-American guy. And he’s always been attracted to black women. They’ve always ADORED us. Basically, look at this video and then tell me you still doubt :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIbxxH3ZcCg
Lola said,
part 2 :
And last but not least, ASIAN MEN love black women, you wanna know how I know? I MARRIED ONE, I’ve been married for 3 years to a Korean-American guy. And he’s always been attracted to black women. They’ve always ADORED us. Basically, look at this video and then tell me you still doubt…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIbxxH3ZcCg
Lola said,
part 2 :
And last but not least, ASIAN MEN love black women. I MARRIED ONE, I’ve been married for 3 years to a Korean-American guy. And he’s always been attracted to black women. They’ve always ADORED us. Basically, type “AMBW” (asian man black woman) on YOUTUBE, and watch the first video “AMBW: Friends, Couples ‘n Fam”…..this site doesn’t seem to accept the link sorry.
Lola said,
^^ THE MEDIA doesn’t talk too much about it but it’s everywhere, open your eyes and you will see. And I’ve been to Thailand, Japan and Korea black women who go study there (I study oriental languages) are wooed by asians 24/7, date and MARRY asians over there, there ARE black/asian children over there. I’ve met my husband there and he was on vacation visiting his family, he was american like me. So yeah we live in the US. But I’ve seen asians, men and women, wear braids and lock their hair even, fans of Bob Marley Lauryn Hill and James Brown, if you go abroad you’ll see for yourself. One of my friends is phillipino and engaged to a sista. It’s to the point where IKEA took notice and did a commercial with an Asian Man and Black Woman JUST RECENTLY with their black/asian CHILD I don’t know if y’all seen it but I’ve seen it like last week on TV. For the first time I’ve seen my couple represented. My husband said asian men have ALWAYS loved the Halle’s and Naomi’s but feared to cross the color barrier just like WE sistas did cause it used to be a taboo.
Lola said,
(part 3) :
This is LOVE too : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XAAj32IsdPI
So yeah, white men, asian men, and also indians, who share the same “skin shades” than we blacks do, LOVE US and start more and more to MARRY US.
See some (I said some) black men STEREOTYPE US (it’s been once again confirmed here) and run to white girls downing the very ones who carried them and their wombs, fed them, clothed them, loved them, and the FUNNIEST thing is that they can’t stand when sistas jump the color barrier. I didn’t date and marry an asian man “because I hate black men”, but I’ve decided that I just would stop discriminating, life is TOO SHORT, and just take what life gives me black white green or red, as long as the LOVE and RESPECT are there. I’ve found it in my husband, and I’m the happiest woman in the world, and IRONICALLY he’s the ONLY man who’s never PUT A STEREOTYPICAL LABEL ON ME BASED ON MY SKIN. Not to mention that his parents accepted me with open arms.
So yeah Brian, keep dissing us, cause there are millions of other men out there who adore us, and I woke up like 5 years ago.
Lola said,
(part 3)
So yeah, white men, asian men, and also indians, who share the same “skin shades” than we blacks do, LOVE US and start more and more to MARRY US.
See some (I said some) black men STEREOTYPE US (it’s been once again confirmed here) and run to white girls downing the very ones who carried them and their wombs, fed them, clothed them, loved them, and the FUNNIEST thing is that they can’t stand when sistas jump the color barrier. I didn’t date and marry an asian man “because I hate black men”, but I’ve decided that I just would stop discriminating, life is TOO SHORT, and just take what life gives me black white green or red, as long as the LOVE and RESPECT are there. I’ve found it in my husband, and I’m the happiest woman in the world, and IRONICALLY he’s the ONLY man who’s never PUT A STEREOTYPICAL LABEL ON ME BASED ON MY SKIN. Not to mention that his parents accepted me with open arms.
So yeah Brian, keep dissing us, cause there are millions of other men out there who adore us, and I woke up like 5 years ago.
DA said,
UMm can u say ******…..I seriously hope this guy is not a guy but a lil 10 yr old boy becuz his thoughts are sooooo immature. He is also contradicting himself. he is weak and can stand a strong willedwoman who takes no **** from anyone…
DA said,
@ Black Man X
Once again, another dude pigeon holed me and millions of other black women into this one category. I, for one, am not a “sista girl” (as u like to call it). I dont look for those things in a man. I am not ghetto, loud, obnoxious. I am not looking for a man to take care of me, u best believe I can do that by myself. All of us women (regardless of color) want is a man who is goal oriented, has a job, an education, has sumthin to bring to the table besides his ****. (We have vibrators for that.) Its just so funny how u say that black women want a man’s money. So you mean to tell me ur gonna overlook all these white girl groupies that are all over athletes, in hopes of being their trophy wife and call the black women out. WRONG! u got it all wrong. I am an ambitious Black female…. who attends UCLA and is doing big things for herself. SO excuse me if Im being a lil sassy but, u are not gonna degrade women like me, BLAck WOmen like me.
QUESTION said,
So let me get this straight……
He doesn’t LIKE US……..BUT HE TAKES THE TIME TO WRITE AN ESSAY ON “WHY HE HATES US”, and he visits a website about “the women he hates the most”??
Cause if I don’t like someone I don’t think about them, right? :confused:
Thanks for letting us know that WE ARE ON YOUR MIND, WE HAVE POWER OVER YOU.
And who suffers more from this HATE?? YOU SWEETIE, you sound ANGRY, SELF-HATEFUL and BITTER.
Isn’t your mother BLACK?? And if you have a daughter, won’t she be BLACK??
THIS SHYYYYT is HILARIOUS.
Thanks for the laugh!! and LOLA Good POSTING!!! I date a cat from Sri Lanka last year we remained friends, but I didn’t know that about Asian men, I’ve watched the video, notice that they love dark and brown sistas even more?? LMAO!
So that “bother” hates us and stereotypes us? How can you hate the most educated and powerful minority of the country? We are OPRAH freaking WINFREY for goodness sakes!! :-D
BTW, your hate is cool with me cause it makes me see things from different perspectives. The more you spit hate the more we hear it and pay attention to the love from other races cause at the end of the day all we ask for is love. Black men are losing us, Jill Scott is with a LATINO PAPI NOW, a sista married Paul Wall and Rihanna dates a white boy. Black women are obviously becoming tired of the bullshat.
OFFICIAL STAND UP GIRL said,
THIS DUDE IS A
AND A 
LET’S HAMMER-TIME :dance2: THIS FOOL
Theresa said,
I am so sorry that Brian chooses to look at everything negative about Black Women. His attittude is very typical of men who look for faults in any woman. Thankfully we are not ugly, uneducated and ignorant. The majority of us are kind, caring, loving people. We are mothers raising sons alone because of ignorant men like Brian, tring to keep our daughters away from men like him so that their self-esteem isn’t greatly bruised. Yes we Black women go to school to educate ourselves, so that we can make enough to take care of children because of the dead beat dads that won’t help us support our children. And if the hair style of a women bothers Brian so much his issues are real deep. As a professional and some one that is educating herself on human behavior I would like to suggest to Brian to get professional help. His issues are deep rooted and are probably related to the mother figure in his life. Stop beating up on Black women we are a strong and loving people.
twa said,
Why when reading this did I get the vibe that this letter was not written by a non-black person trying to get entertainment by touching on a very controversial topic; knowing that it would garner this much response…
dottie said,
Loved your posts Lola
, but where did you hear about Rick Gonzalez having a black wife?