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Brown Sista’s Hot 100

Maxim So as they do every year, Maxim magazine has released their list of the 100 hottest women in Hollywood. Of this 100 exactly 6 of them are Black or at least part Black. Ciara came in at #72 followed by Gabrielle Union at #67, Jessica White at #60, Halle Berry at #55, Beyonce at #13 and Rihanna made the top ten by coming in at #8. Now because only 6 of the women were of color, some people have started to complain. We here at Brown Sista however aren’t the least bit concerned with the lack of color on this list because hey- look at the source. Plus, can you really take a magazine seriously that thinks Lindsay Lohan is prettier than any of the above women, or even Jessica Alba who came in at #2 ?

So rather than complain about the lack of color on the list, I say more Black publications and websites should put together their own list. We cannot expect to be fully included in publications that are not aimed at us so why get mad when they overlook us or simply throw us a few bones?

Plus, as much as I support many of the women on the list, they are but the biggest names in mainstream White America and Jessica White only made the list because she was in the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issue this year. I doubt many people of any race really know who she is.

Anyway to get the ball rolling, I will post my Top 10 List of Hottest Sistas In Hollywood.

1. Gabrielle Union
2. Angell Conwell
3. Jill Marie Jones
4. Janet Jackson
5. Meagan Good
6. Keyshia Cole
7 Jamelia
8. Sanaa Lathan
9. Taraji P. Henson
10. Lauren London

Don’t like my list? Make your own and post it below !

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129 Comments

  1. Dana said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at4:24 am -1 years, 12 months after

    I agree. It’s always a bore when these lists are compiled and we start whining. First it ain’t that serious and two, it’s a White magazine aimed at White men. Yeah they sometimes post Black, Hispanic and Asian women, but the core is still the same.I could care less who does or doesn’t make the list but how interesting Lindsay Lohan with her jaded reutation and open drug use would be chosen #1. Very interesting indeed. :confused:

  2. des said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at8:25 am -1 years, 12 months after

    Jessica Alba is truly OVER RATED! Here is my top ten most beautiful (famous) women…

    1 Beyonce
    2 Janet Jackson
    3 Angela Bassett
    4 Sanaa Lathan
    5 Gabrielle Union
    6 Rebbie Jackson
    7 Jennifer Lopez
    8 Mowry Twins
    9 Meagan Good
    10 Oprah Winfrey

  3. KSH said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at8:32 am -1 years, 12 months after

    I had to chuckle at Lindsay Lohan at #1…lol
    My top 5

    5.Tracee Ellis Ross
    4.Gabrielle Union
    3.Vanessa Williams
    2.Kelly Rowland (w/short hair)
    1.Sanaa Lathan

  4. KSH said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at8:34 am -1 years, 12 months after

    Lindsay Lohan #1…to hilarious for words!
    My Top Five:
    5.Tracee Ellis Ross
    4.Gabrielle Union
    3.Vanessa Williams
    2.Kelly Rowland
    1.Sanaa Lathan

  5. Stella said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at8:52 am -1 years, 12 months after

    1- Beyonce
    2- Ciara
    3- Rihanna
    4- Cassie
    5- Halle Berry
    6- Tracee Ellis Ross
    7- Alicia Keys
    8- Sanaa Lathan
    9- Malinda Willimas
    10- Nia Long

    Des I think Jessica is overrated too but she is much prettier than Lindsay Lohan who looks like a spotted owl :lol2:

  6. me said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at9:10 am -1 years, 12 months after

    1.Janet Jackson
    2.Kelly Rowland
    3.Monica
    4.Jill Maria Jones
    5.Beyonce
    6.Jada Pinkett Smith
    7.Alicia Keys
    8.Joi Bryant
    9.Megan Good
    10.Persia White

  7. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at9:43 am -1 years, 12 months after

    Gabrielle Union
    Kerry Washington
    Angela Bassett
    Kenya Moore
    Eva Mendez
    Vanessa Williams
    Alicia Keys
    Rhianna
    Nia Long
    Joi Bryant

    Jessica Alba is extremely over rated right along with Beyonce. No offense but, I would like to see more darker complexion black women being overrated the way these two are.

  8. JBL said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at9:56 am -1 years, 12 months after

    Black Men’s Magazine release a similar list every years and people complain about that one too :lol: You can’t please everyone but Lindsay Lohan is facially challenged and shouldn’t have made the list. She is so freckled it looks like it hurts. Without make-up she really looks like she has a disease. :bag: N-E-Way here is my list below.

    1. Tracee Ellis Ross (I want her body)

    2. Janet Jackson (She still got it cause age ain’t nothing but a number)

    3. Halle Berry (Classy and look as good as she did 10 years ago)

    4. Nia Long (She’s an around the way girl we all can relate too)

    5. Lauren Hill (Classic Black woman, will always love her)

    6. Gabrielle Union (Too beautiful for words)

    7. Meagan Good (No talent but grew out of the awkward nerdy stage to become a very pretty girl)

    8. Oprah (Rich, Black and SMART)

    9. Tyra Banks (30 pounds fatter and still hotter than the average woman)

    10. Beyonce (This woman wears heels even with jeans and shorts, you gotta love her)

    My list rocks :dance:

  9. prettyparker said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at11:07 am -1 years, 12 months after

    1. Halle Berry

    2. Vanessa Williams

    3. Sanaa Lathan / Joy Bryant (They are equally gorgeous!)

    4. Janet Jackson

    5. Gabrielle Union

    6. Kerry Washington

    7. Lauren Hill

    8. Beyonce Knowles (Pre-Beyonce Experience. Since she started touring she began looking too much like her sister or mother. I’m hoping its just the camera angles because she is usually beautiful)

    9. Angela Bassett

    10. Tracey Edmonds

  10. jmachats said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at11:51 am -1 years, 12 months after

    1.Sanaa Lathan

  11. jmachats said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at11:53 am -1 years, 12 months after

    1.Sanaa Lathan
    2.Sanaa Lathan
    3.Sanaa Lathan
    4.Sanaa Lathan
    5.Sanaa Lathan
    6.Sanaa Lathan
    7.Sanaa Lathan
    8.Sanaa Lathan
    9.Sanaa Lathan
    10. Sanaa Lathan

    nuff said :mrgreen:

  12. Adara said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at12:26 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    My List!

    1. Sanaa Lathan
    2. Nia Long
    3. Lauren London
    4. Regina Hall
    5. Tocarra (from Top Model and The Black Carpet)
    6. Reagan Gomez
    7. Beyonce
    8. Stacy Dash
    9. Paula Patton
    10.Lisa Raye

  13. janae said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at1:24 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    not exactly in order:
    1.meagan good
    2.angel fershgenet
    3.aaliyah
    4.rihanna
    5.janet
    6.beyonce
    7.stacey dash
    8.kerry washington
    9.tyra
    10.pretty much many sistahs too many to name….we dont run ugly by the way did i say i got into spelman….!

  14. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at3:20 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    1. Beyonce
    2. Nia Long
    3. London (NU NU) - ATL Movie
    4. Saana Lathan
    5. JLo
    6. Shakira
    7. Kelly Rowland
    8. Halle Berry
    9. Eva Pigford
    10. Gabrielle Union

  15. MrsHarris said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at8:00 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    1. Halle Berry
    2. Lauryn Hill
    3. Tracee Ellis Ross
    4. Paula Patton
    5. Kimora Lee
    6. Nia Long
    7. Lisa Raye
    8. Rihanna
    9. Angela Bassett
    10. Mary J Blige

  16. AndreLedale said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at10:08 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    1. My Mom (There’s Heaven and then there’s my mom beauty) :brownsista:
    2. Wife (Angel sent from Heaven beauty) :brownsista:
    3. Sister (World’s top super model in the making beauty) :brownsista:
    4. Jade Kennedy (Classic beauty) :brownsista:
    5. Janet Jackson (Icon beauty) :brownsista:
    6. Kelly Rowland (Underrated chocolate beauty) :brownsista:
    7. Beyonce (Icon in the making beauty) :brownsista:
    8. Halle Berry (Mixed just right beauty) :brownsista:
    9. Oprah (Billionaire beauty) :brownsista:
    10. MoNique (Phat Confident beauty) :brownsista:

  17. Josie said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at11:17 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    [quote comment="7167"]1.Sanaa Lathan
    2.Sanaa Lathan
    3.Sanaa Lathan
    4.Sanaa Lathan
    5.Sanaa Lathan
    6.Sanaa Lathan
    7.Sanaa Lathan
    8.Sanaa Lathan
    9.Sanaa Lathan
    10. Sanaa Lathan

    nuff said :mrgreen:[/quote]
    So you like Sanaa Lathan huh :lol2:

  18. AndreLedale said,

    Gravatar IconMay 16, 2007 at11:23 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    Congradulations 13.

  19. jmachats said,

    Gravatar IconMay 17, 2007 at3:39 am -1 years, 12 months after

    So you like Sanaa Lathan huh

    ohh, yes.

  20. Stef said,

    Gravatar IconMay 17, 2007 at9:32 am -1 years, 12 months after

    :thumbsdown:

    I PERSONALLY DON’T PAY THOSE LIST ANY ATTENTION BECAUSE THEY’RE CREATED BY AND CATERED TOWARD WHITE PEOPLE AND THE ONLY SISTA’S THAT MAKE THE TOP OF THE LIST ARE THOSE WITH CROSS OVER APPEAL OR WHO ARE LIGHT SKINED WHICH IS WHITE PEOPLE PERCEPTION OF BLACK BEAUTY….LINDSEY COKEHEAD IS A PURE JOKE.

    THE SIX BLACK WOMEN ON THE LIST SHOULD HAVE BEEN IN THE TOP 20 EASY…JANET DIDN’T EVEN MAKE THE LIST SO I KNOW THAT LIST IS STRAIGHT UP BULLSH**!!!!!

    :noway:

  21. ms.palmer said,

    Gravatar IconMay 17, 2007 at11:55 am -1 years, 12 months after

    lol…i agree with what everyone was saying but to the poster that said they only have light skin celebs…last time i recalled gabby wasnt light…she’s beautifully brown..and ciara is brownskin and jessica white is another chocolate beauty…

  22. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 17, 2007 at12:30 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    [quote comment="7173"]1. Beyonce
    2. Nia Long
    3. London (NU NU) - ATL Movie
    4. Saana Lathan
    5. JLo
    6. Shakira
    7. Kelly Rowland
    8. Halle Berry
    9. Eva Pigford
    10. Gabrielle Union[/quote]

    Who cares who’s light skin or who’s dark skin. When White America looks at us they see BLACK WOMEN! :booty:
    :grin:
    Its all love. People like what they like! No one can do anything about it. My boyfriend happens to be one person who loves light women. But I have family male family members who love Dark women, or Big women. Peoole like what they like. Lets stop making it a big deal if were light or dark. :dance2:

  23. atl...fl said,

    Gravatar IconMay 17, 2007 at12:41 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    1. Eva Pigford
    2. Kelly Rowland
    3. Paula Patton
    4. Beyonce Knowles
    5. Jessica White
    6. Halle Berry
    7. Gabby Union
    8. Monique
    9. Samantha Mumba
    10. Amerie/Rihanna
    I agree! Chocolate sisters are so underrated!

  24. Tamara said,

    Gravatar IconMay 17, 2007 at1:33 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    1 Gabrielle Union
    2 Sannaa Lathan
    3 Halle Berry
    4 Nia Long
    5 Beyonce
    6 Kenya Moore
    7 Paula Patton
    8 Tyra Banks
    9 Kelis
    10 Jessica White

    I think that this is the best list up here!

  25. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 17, 2007 at1:53 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    :stop: S. Dot we understand that people like what they like. And of coruse this comment had to be coming from a Beyonce fan it dosen’t suprise me. I declare her stans always go off the deep end. However, if complexion did not matter then why are extremely darker women than Gabreille or Kenya Moore still being pushed to the back burner. If Beyonce was 10 shades darker do you think that she would be as over rated and over exposed as she is? The answer is NO :noway: ! When in fact there are a lot of darker complexion sistas that look better than Beyonce. Get a life because you are living in your own fake world! That’s right the lesson here is to show love but that’s the problem they are trying to give 95% of it to the lighter closer to white standards of beauty women. In case you do not know what that means a darker woman can have that too. That means looking or obtaining to look more like a caucasion person than a true black person if you were not born that way :brownsista: . If you are mixed sometimes that’s a little more different depending on what side of the genes the individual took after. But that’s a slave mentality that has been passed down in the black community. White & light is right, brown stay around, black get back. Everyone that I have come in contact with that think like that can never give a rational or factual reasoning behind that thought. Why because it’s a form of being mentaly ill and not knowing it. If someone taught you from birth the wrong way then when you become an adult you will think it’s right unless you have enough intelligence to look and think outside of the box. People still think like that they just want admit it. Maybe you want to continue to be a puppet to socities standards and beliefs but I am too intelligent to just come along to get along. It’s not happning i wish you peace and enlightment because you are lost right along with a lot of others in the black community.

  26. Stef said,

    Gravatar IconMay 17, 2007 at2:39 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    :iagree:

    REAL TALK,

    I AGREE, SOMEONE MADE THE COMMENT THAT’S NOT TRUE ABOUT LIGHT SKIN GIRLS BECAUSE GABRIELE IS ON THE LIST…I DIN’T SAY BROWN SKINED WOMEN DIDN’T MAKE THE LIST I SAID THEY GET PLACED AT THE BOTTOM OF THE LIST ALL OF THE CHOCOLATE SISTA’S THAT WERE NAMED ARE ALL AT THE BOTTOM.

    AND YES HOLLYWOOD TENDS TO IDENTIFY MORE WITH THOSE WHO ARE LIGHT SKIN WITH WHITE FEATURES. THERE IS NO WAY IN HELL SOME OF THESE TRASH *** LOOKING WHITE GIRLS SHOULD BE ABOVE BEY, CIARA, OR GABBY.

  27. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 17, 2007 at2:48 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    Real Talk,

    Hello how are you first of all. :smile: One yes I’m a Beyonce Fan. Do I think she’s accepted because she’s a lighter shade maybe, maybe not. I’m just saying WHO CARES. It’s up to US to stop even thinking that way. IT’s a sad way to think. I honestly don’t think Beyonce is that light skin (but that’s my opinion). Alicia Keyes is very light, Christina Milian is very light. Bee isn’t that light. Do I think Dark Skin Black women are over looked in White America…..No! Once again my opinion. But No I don’t. Whoopi Goldberg made it, Oprah made it, Someone Mentioned Monique. I just hate us as Black people always saying “OH she’s where she is because she’s Light skin”. That way of thinking need to stop and we need to be happy it’s a BROWN FACE THAT MADE IT! That’s all.

    Because like I said earlier at the end of the day WHITE AMERICA SEE US AS BLACK. Light, Dark, In-Between. They still see BLACK! I know a few of you may not agree and that’s fine :smile: We all have opinions and I just ask if mine can be viewed as such. Thanks S.Dot!

  28. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 17, 2007 at3:40 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    Hello Real talk,

    I’m not sure if my last post was uploaded or not. But first of all I respect your comment and I totally understand were your coming from.

    Second, we all have our own opinions. That’s what I like about these types of boards.

    Third, I’m a true hard core Beyonce Fan Yes. She’s THE BOMB to me. She could do no WRONG! MY OPINION! :)

    But All I’m saying is I don’t feel that Bee made it or half of the girls on the list is there because of their complexion. I don’t even think Beyonce is that Light skinned. She’s a nice brown color to me.

    I think us as Black people should be happy we that our BLACK SISTAS MADE IT! :dance: Because no matter what WHITE AMERICA SEE US AS BLACK!

    Plus Oprah, Monique, Whoopi Goldberg, Angela Bassett, Queen Latifa (WOMEN WHO ARE NOT LIGHT SKIN) made it and is SO PAID. Why because of their talent. To me we should stop making those comments and be happy for our BLACK SISTAS!!!! :)

  29. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 17, 2007 at3:52 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    Yes if Bee was 10 shades darker I think she would still have her fame and glory. She’s a bowl of talent that can’t be denied. Keep it real, plus I’m not “A Stan” honey. I’m just a little older than you all that enjoy this site and wanted to put something in your ear that was on a positive note. Not hating, no STAN (CTFU) or none of that. Just a thought and answering questions.

    This comment

    “But that’s a slave mentality that has been passed down in the black community. White & light is right, brown stay around, black get back”

    I understand totally. But I just hope the new Generation (like my daughter, who will be 1 in 3 months) doesn’t grow up thinking that way. Because she’s Very Very Light skinned she will be get here or there! I just don’t like it when people say that. The other day, someone said to me “OH your daughter is so beautiful with her high yellow self, she look just like a doll”. I lost it, why did she have to make that comment. That to me is a slave mentality. But I want you all to know, I hear what you’re saying too and I totally understand. TTYS, Shunda :)

  30. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 17, 2007 at3:55 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    [quote comment="7256"]Yes if Bee was 10 shades darker I think she would still have her fame and glory.

    She’s a bowl of talent that can’t be denied. Keep it real, plus I’m not “A Stan” honey. I’m just a little older than you all that enjoy this site and wanted to put something in your ear that was on a positive note. Not hating, no STAN (CTFU) or none of that. Just a thought and answering questions.

    This comment

    “But that’s a slave mentality that has been passed down in the black community. White & light is right, brown stay around, black get back”

    I understand totally. But I just hope the new Generation (like my daughter, who will be 1 in 3 months) doesn’t grow up thinking that way. Because she’s Very Very Light skinned she will be get here or there in life! :noway: I just don’t like it when people say that. The other day, someone said to me “OH your daughter is so beautiful with her high yellow self, she look just like a doll”. I lost it, why did she have to make that comment. That to me is a slave mentality. But I want you all to know, I hear what you’re saying too and I totally understand. TTYS, S.Dot :)[/quote]

  31. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 17, 2007 at4:04 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    Sorry to post like 10 times I’m new to this. Plus Honey I’m not lost in society. I’m helping CHANGE SOCIETY with MY SEED! THANK YOU VERY VERY MUCH! Once again I respect and here your fustration, but NOT ALL OF US THINK LIGHT IS RIGHT OR DARK IS WRONG! I say do and what you feel in life just don’t hurt any one and I know I’m where I am because of my talents not because I’m a lighter skin tone! :)

  32. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 18, 2007 at12:14 am -1 years, 12 months after

    S.Dot I am happy for my sisters :smile: . However, I am extremely blessed, talented, and very on point myself so I don’t know any other way to be but happy. However, apparently you are not older with the way you think. I don’t have a problem with respecting your opinion I am just enlightening you on the truth. You still come across as a lost soul if you think that some people (not me) don’t have that light skin dark skin issue still going on. :stop: News flash I never said I think that white & light is right, brown stay around black get back. No honey I am too intelligent and open minded to think that way. What I said was a lot of people still think that way and want admit it. I am about equality. However, I never stated that any of those women were on that chart because of their color. I just made a factual statement that a lot of black people still use complexion to discriminate against each other. I also talked about white standards of beauty which have nothing to do with color. That has to do with obtaining more to be white. Example: hair is a perfect one :brownsista: . The sad part is they use the word preference as an excuse to carry this vicious disease on. According to Merriam Webster, “preference means to put or set forward or before someone recommend. Recommend means to present as worthy of acceptance or trial.” Like I was explaining people use words and can’t or don’t know the meaning and then turn around and say they are not discriminating. It’s called ignorance just coming along to get along. So my question again is no one is better than anyone to carry that title. Oprah Winfrey is one of my most favorite people if you stated that you were not a fan I would not get upset, immediately defend, or call anyone names. But were the issue comes in a lot of Beyonce fans do that and it’s not right. Her stans think that she is more then everyone including themselves. Most of her fans tend to be quiet delusional and irrational. Trust me honey you are delusional and living in a fake world to think that if Beyonce was 10 shades darker they would still give her the same glory. I can feel your frustration because you are light skinned however no on ever stated that was your means of getting by. You should not even be addressing this issue because you are already taking it personal. What ever happened to Dr. Martin Luther King’s speech, “I have a dream that one day we will be judged by the content of our character rather than the color of our skin?” I wish that day was here but it has not come and especially in the black community itself. Charity begins at home and until the black community stop discriminating against each others complexion you should never expect for white America to stop looking at them as just black women or people. Why complain about another race being racist against you when you are being racist against yourself. In conclusion wake up and don’t believe the hype! :noway:

  33. S JOHN said,

    Gravatar IconMay 18, 2007 at2:31 am -1 years, 12 months after

    CIARA # 1

  34. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 18, 2007 at10:04 am -1 years, 12 months after

    I have no Idea what your trying to say. Regardless, we can do a survey ages 18 to 30 and I bet half of the women will feel like out black sista made it off of TALENT. Not all but MOST OF THEM! Straight up. You can’t hate on some one’s talent. Bottom line. That’s why we have favorites and things like that.

    Please some one on this board please tell me what’s wrong with me saying and teaching my daughter that just because your Light skin don’t think you got it made and you will go far. NO! So all what you said above made no since to me because you really didn’t hear me. It’s cool. I’m done with this. In all I think the Maxim 100 list is cool. I’m proud my Black sista’s made the list. Have a good one!!! :)

  35. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 18, 2007 at2:30 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    Some how I figure you would try to post the first sentence you wrote LOL wow I am good! There goes that word hate typically used by Beyonce’s stans. S. Dot no one is hating on Beyonce. I am at the top of my game as the saying goes so you need to take your own advice and don’t hate. You can do a survey of women 18-30 years old and I bet you will get mixed responses about Beyonce. You still want change my opinion about her. I think that she is a mediocre singer, alright dancer, and she definately can not act. The girl is just over hyped to the max and you fell for it but that’s ok many people have. But many people are also seeing the truth about her too alone this past year. Guess what that’s my opinion and you can’t hate on that. I prefer Whitney Houston, Aretha Franklin, Alicia Keys, Mariah Carey, Celine Dion and Jennifer Hudson over Beyonce any day and you can’t hate on that. Remember I have stated that I am not a puppet to society and other people beliefs and likes. But unfortunately you seem to be. And S. Dot of course what was written above would make no sense to you because you are a lost soul it’s alright a lot of people are. However, there’s absolutley nothing wrong with you teaching your daughter not to think that her light skin will give her a pass in life. That’s the way she should be taught and that equality is the way. Please go and enlighten yourself have a nice life because I have an awesome life. Signing off for now and that’s Real Talk folks! :thumbsup:

  36. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 18, 2007 at3:47 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    Best question of the day why do you keep singling Beyonce out! I’m not just talking about her. If you want to go there my favorite singer and performer of all times is Rochelle Ferrell. NOT BEYONCE! So if it makes you feel happy in calling me a “STAN” (THAT IS SOOOO FUNNY to me) GO FOR IT MA!! But you seem to really have a hatred toward Beyonce. To me I noticed (NOT SAYING You or ANY ONE ON HERE) a lot of women who aren’t so secure with themselves HATE on Beyonce. Especially BLACk WOMEN. Plus In my comment above (PLEASE UNDERSTAND THIS) I was not talking SOLELY about Beyonce! I was just saying People can’t HATE on some one’s TALENT! That’s all.

    In all I stand by my statement and Bee is just Amazing to me as an all around performer and BLACK ROLE MODEL! I did do a survey here at my job and half of the people didn’t even “THINK” about her complexion making her acceptable! I swear. What they did say is there sick of her and want her to sit down somewhere CTFU! But a lot said no they really didn’t think about it at all. Plus like I said she’s not that light skin.

    Thank you about the nice life. Honey, my life is the bomb. I just got a $10,000 raise and it had nothing to do with my complexion it’s because I’m the BOMB at being and Investment Banker! I feel a lot of Celebs CONFIDENCE are taken out of context.

    But if you think I’m lost COOL! Because your just one person who don’t know me. Not that you want too but sweetie I’m not lost. I just do worry about the Light skin this or dark skin that. I think we’re lost by still thinking that way. Once again my opinion because a lot of people on this board feel like you do. So Cool, I’m one person who can’t change anyone’s mind but my own :smile:

    In all I’m going to be the bigger person and say (Once again) I respect and UNDERSTAND where your coming from. Also I will keep what you said in mind, especially if I’m in a situation that the darker or the lighter person is excelling from just complexion alone.

    Have a great weekend all!

    S. Dot :smile:

  37. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 18, 2007 at8:17 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    S. Dot you are just ignorant plain and simple accept it. I notice a lot of women that are not secure within themselves worship Beyonce and like to label and put others down when they don’t. Don’t try to say that I have hatred for Beyonce because I tell the truth about her. That’s what all stans think when the truth is being revealed. Did you know that there are men that don’t like Beyonce? By the way did you happen to notice that Beyonce’s self-esteem is not all that high? Any time when you see someone that says they want or have to be number one or out due everyone all the time that’s JEALOUSY. Go look the word up but you don’t seem that bright so you want. Beyonce is a jealous hater that’s why it’s coming back to haunt her. For the record I am not singling Beyonce out IDIOT! Isn’t she what we were discussing the last time I checked DUMMY! If we were discussing another artist then that’s who the topic would be about. See how ignorant and racist you are singling out and labeling black women. :hater: You are a disgrace to the black community. You should learn to keep your mouth closed until you have something, truthful, intelligent, or enlightening to say.
    If you read my post you would know that I don’t support the dark skin light skin theory. I just realize that it exists. That’s just like Aids exist but do you carry the virus. Boy oh boy you are lost and delusional and seriously need a reality check.
    Understand that you are frustrated now LOL :lol: .

    But know this I will stand by my opinion and still say Beyonce is MEDIOCRE across the broad in singing and ok in dancing. Acting is out of the picture so deal with it. She is also extremely over hyped. For the record it’s not hating it’s called an opinion. But an opinion is something that ignorant people can’t handle if it does not correspond with their opinion. S. Dot congratulations on your raise but really who cares that you got 10,000 or you are an Investor Banker. I see why you worship Beyonce because you think that all the superficial things of the world like money and positions make an individual. You have not once said anything that relates to the inner spirit or character. So you (STFU) seriously you can’t be all that bright of an Investment Banker what’s the number to your branch because you need to be dealt with. Apparently you have no self- esteem either because if you are the bomb then you would not feel the need to defend that or put black women down.

    By the way the survey you did was just a hand full of people. They do not represent a vast majority. However, I do remember you saying you are a bit older. You definitely don’t present that. What mature woman wastes her time doing a survey about Beyonce while she is at work? You have got to be kidding me and you deem yourself as being mature. Now you seriously need to grow up. :iagree: So S.Dot go and find yourself a better life because mine is extraordinary. And you could never get on my level or as M.C. Hammer says you can’t touch this: hater: :dance2:

  38. Sick of It said,

    Gravatar IconMay 18, 2007 at10:31 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    :dance: Aaliyah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :dance:

  39. me said,

    Gravatar IconMay 19, 2007 at1:36 pm -1 years, 12 months after

    1. halle
    2. jlo
    3. sanaa
    4. gabriel
    5. rhianna
    6. nia long
    7. kelly rowland
    8. beyonce
    9. ciara
    10. scarlette johanson

  40. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 21, 2007 at1:50 am -1 years, 12 months after

    :banana: Your funny. I have no need to lie about my profession or the CAKE I make my love. In all your words make no sense. You have my entire office cracking up and everyone wanted me to ask you, how come you don’t stick to the topic at hand. Which is why do everyone hate that light skin women like BEE? Why do you all think her complexion take her to high status? Also I want to know when did I put some one down? That’s not my style Ma! You have a lot to learn and you will soon enough.

    So all I have to say to my BLACK SISTAS Keep doing you, don’t let no one stop you. Because end the end you will be the last one laughing all the way to the BANK!!! :smile:

  41. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 21, 2007 at6:32 pm 14 hours, 17 minutes after

    S. Dot LOL at yourself :lol2: . If anyone does not make sense it is you darling. You did a lot of talking and still did not say anything. Once again let me say you are ignorant. I can feel your frustration :lol: . You make me laugh because you still have not answered my question. What mature intelligent woman takes a survey about Beyonce at work and then sits around her computer and shows other co-workers her posts against me on Brown Sista? Sounds like you don’t have a life. If you are so competent why do you need to bring others into a conversation that you started? You lack confidence in your beliefs so you need others to agree with what you say (or lye to you) to make you better. Maybe your co-workers are ignorant like you? For that matter I am sticking to the topic at hand. And no one said that you were lying about the amount of money you make. I just said congratulations and who cares. If anyone has a lot to learn it is you because you are getting upset over someone that does not even know that you exist. Trust me if you were caught in a burning building Beyonce would not save you :loser: . You are also a liar because putting people down is your style you just put black women down in general in an earlier post. You need to get a life and you say you are an Investor Banker? LOL they let anyone be an investor Banker because you have not proven to be very smart or intelligent. Everyone does not hate light skinned women like Beyonce. I never once said I hated Beyonce you are trying to put words in my mouth because I don’t worship her. A lot of people are starting to see Beyonce for whom she really is which is a gimmick that’s why they don’t like her. So my question to you is why did a lot of people hate a beautiful brown skin sister like Whitney Houston (before they found out about the drug addiction)? Whitney who is someone that Beyonce can not hold a candle to when it comes to talent. Answer that question ignorant one. In conclusion Black Women stay away from other ignorant incompetent lost souls like S.Dot who are out of touch with reality. In the end unlike S.Dot know that you do not have to conform to societies standards or beliefs, educate yourselves about your history, and acknowledge that issues that you may not like are present like (racism but you don’t have to conform), you will be very intelligent and also laughing all the way to the bank unlike S.Dot. :lol:

  42. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 22, 2007 at12:04 pm 1 day, 7 hours after

    First let me start off by saying to ALL, NEVER EVER NOT ONCE did I ever DISRESPECT, or Hate on any one or Artist on here. Never did I put any one Down or have nasty things to say about them.

    Second, Never did I once need to prove myself as a Banker on here! I never wanted to share knowledge NOTHING LIKE THAT ON HERE! What I’m going to look for Clients on a Internet Posting Board! OK….I’m ready to school you all! YEAH RIGHT! Plus HOW THE HELL are you going to tell me I don’t laugh my way at IMATURE HATERs ALL THE WAY TO THE BANK. Let’s make this clear it’s on a WEEKLY BASIS THANK YOU VERY MUCH! “REAL” what I make in one week, Mater of fact what I make in my 2 bonus a year, hold up let me go deeper what I make off my investments you could never see in one year! Plus I did meet you and if your company (THAT’S IF YOU HAD ONE) wanted to do an IPO or Corp Financing with our company, I guarantee you, your COMPANY would not make it through our BACK GROUND CHECKS! Now use that Quote as putting some one down! :) Especially since you were Nasty, Rude, name calling on me! FOR WHAT! because I like BEYONCE!!!??? GREAT! :smile:

    I’m a Black WOMEN with the BOMB JOB I love coming to everyday for the last 4 years! Anyway, I don’t want for S*** from any one! I don’t need any MAN, I don’t need any Welfare, I don’t need any of that. I made it ON MY OWN through my education, my experience, and because I’m good at what I do. My child if FLY EVERYDAY and don’t want for S*** either! So to all you SISTAS out there IT CAN BE DONE. Don’t hate on me because I’m a young women who’s Credit is GREAT, Who take care of their child and is making a difference in people lives! So Real S. DOT is Something you don’t know about. Why? Because you don’t know ME! I made it and will continue to make it until God TAKE ME OUT OF FROM HERE! Oh and it’s not because of my Completion or looks. Can you believe that???? :smile:

    You seem like the type of person who must always be right and need acceptance so you can prove your right all the time. FIRST LET ME SAY I don’t think I’m right all the time. I can admit that. But one thing you’re not going to tell me is REAL LIFE! NO WAY! I know BLACK women CAN make it in the Entainment business just off talent alone, and I stand by that statement. Look at Whitney, Beyonce, Mary, Etc. :cool:

    Plus WHY are you on here trying to insult my intelligence and my person? REMEMBER REAL you don’t know me or half the people on here! Everyone on here including yourself is speaking from experience, something they researched or just pure opinion. WHO ARE YOU TO TELL ME I’m lost!? Why because I’m a fan of BEYONCE? Why because I shared my personal FACT about my life as an BANKER on here? HOW Childish? What make me lost? Is it because I disagreed with you? YES! I will still say I don’t feel light skin black women make it on their looks alone. I think it has to do with their talent. Plus please please show me in an old post where I dissed Whitney Houston? You also make up stuff too and that’s borderline Crazy. Especially when you don’t know people.

    Now, let me tell you something about me….some FACTS (Besides, I have a beautiful daughter, and a Great Job). I love people. I am the first face you see when you come in to the Investment banking dept. I meet people from all over the world as well as Celebs ETC. I’m not known for being a liar or a fraud, rude, inconsiderate, nasty, name calling. I don’t judge people, I treat those how they treat me. I hate being mean it’s too much energy. I’m known by my friends as too nice. If you need anything I’ll do my best for you man! That’s me! I’m a people pleaser so to call me all those AWFUL names, you did in all of your post was WRONG, HATERISH (LOVE THAT WORD), and disrespectful.

    If you all noticed I was the only one who said, I respect your thoughts, please respect mine. “REAL” was the one who had to go to the bottom of the pit to prove her point, whether it was right or wrong. I don’t do that. I will defend myself and my child. I don’t need to go below the belt and call people lost, and hate on their Paper. The money I make off my salary, bonus, commission, and my profits or loss with my investments you could never see. Your blinded when I’m walking to Walking or leaving the bank. :smile:

    So I’m out until I’m told off, or accused of being lost, or just being disrespected.

    Until then GOD Bless!! :smile:

  43. prettyparker said,

    Gravatar IconMay 22, 2007 at3:21 pm 1 day, 11 hours after

    Okay S. Dot and Real Talk, I’m jumping into this because I just read your back and forth comments during my lunch break and it seems to me you are both saying the same thing:

    There are some people in our community who continue to equate a person’s worth with their skin color.

    Okay, now what? It is a reality that people have that mentality and if neither of you do, then be pleased that you are both enlightened and educated. But what’s up with the essays ladies? (LOL, like I’m one to talk, everytime I comment I write an essay). :lol:

    Both of you agree there should be more brown sistas listed. Both wish that folks in our community would get over the whole skin color deal (Real Talk @ May 18th, 2007 around 12:14 am) / (S. Dot @ May 17th, 2007 around 12:30 pm). If both of you are saying the same thing, why the continued back and forth? And what’s up the put-downs?

    My apologies for butting in but it seems you are both saying the exact same things.

  44. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 22, 2007 at3:37 pm 1 day, 11 hours after

    Hello Mrs. Pretty Parker,

    I know I’ve been saying the same thing I did that on purpose because REAL don’t get it.

    I never put ANYONE DOWN! Read my post please. I only DEFENDED MYSELF. I could care less about opinions and stuff like that. But don’t put me down because I give you an example of my REAL LIFE!

    I never said I agree more Brown skin Sista’s need to be on there. I don’t agree to that but I do think more BLACK women Period should be on there. Ya know.

    I felt I would keep defending myself until REAL got what “I” was saying. She kept misconstruing my words, and making up stuff. I didn’t want people to think that I was making up stuff or lies. Because that’s not me. Plus I wanted you all to know, this person don’t know me to call me names, and take it to such a negative level like she did. Plus this is email and anything can sound worst than it is. Ya Know!!! :)

    Trust me I’m not posting books, but it’s sometime you have a lot to get across to people! :smile:

    Please no apologizes, I feel you and your right I was repeating myself. Because I was being accused of things I’d never said or just being LIED on (like my profession). So I felt I had to defend myself also I had to let people know. Just because you’re a lighter shade don’t mean you will go far. You go far on your merits, credits, and your skills. But think you for your insight. I hope Real is as humble. Thanks, S. Dot :smile:

  45. prettyparker said,

    Gravatar IconMay 22, 2007 at4:40 pm 1 day, 12 hours after

    You’re right S. Dot, you didn’t put anyone down. I respect your desire to reiterate your point via the multiple posts. That’s cool with me :thumbsup:

    I say ‘brown sistas’ as a term that includes all black women regardless of skin color. We both agree that the Hot 100 List should have included more sistas period.

  46. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 22, 2007 at4:47 pm 1 day, 12 hours after

    Thanks, and I’m sorry for being a pain in the you know what!! :) :smile:

  47. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 22, 2007 at4:50 pm 1 day, 12 hours after

    How do you post pics on her I want to put a pic of my Daughter!!!??

  48. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 22, 2007 at4:51 pm 1 day, 12 hours after

    S. Dot just shut up. Like you said I don’t know you and you don’t know me. so there fore you don’t know what I make and what I have. But unike you I don’t have to explain myself to you or the world because I don’t need your approval. You better be careful who you are talking about because something bad will happen to you. Pretty Parker S. Dot does not get it. No one is hating or have hated on her. She is just mad because I do not share the same opinion about Beyonce as she does. Then she turned around and made that general statement about black women. She does not even deserve to be called an African American. Don’t make me tell you what title you deserve because I will go there. She needs to get over herself because I can tell she is very frustrated over someone who does not care about her. As far as not needing a man LOL something told me you were lacking in that area. You are too uptight over nothing. S.Dot get this I will continue to say what I feel deal with it. Your problem is you want to be right all the time but are in denial about it. You also think that you are all that and how dare someone stand up to you. I can tell you think your money and our position some how make you better than others. S.Dot here’s a quick reality check you are not the only African American that’s on point. There are far more that are above you like say Oprah Winfrey since you think you are number one. Too bad you are not. So get over yourself and seek some professional help. You must have had an unhappy child hood where you did not have much. The reason why I say that is the way you always talk about your money and your position. News flash God giveth and he also taketh away. So keep on bumping your gums to me and about me and you will see what might happen to you. LOL you say that you are older. And yet you are getting mad over Beyonce. Mature people don’t get upset over something like this. To me you are silly. And it’s quiet amusing pulling your strings because you say that you are so intelligent but I am proving you out to be a liar. One thing you need to grasp around your mind is I don’t care if you are a Beyonce fan. But you will respect my opinion that she is only mediocre accross the broad in my opinion. That’s how this whole back and forth conversation got started due to your like of respect and egocentric veiw points. You will not change my mind nor my opinion and the more your try the more you will see you will not get any where. So go and get a life because apparently you don’t have one.

  49. prettyparker said,

    Gravatar IconMay 22, 2007 at5:04 pm 1 day, 12 hours after

    S. Dot, you can add a gravatar (pic) via a link that was posted on brown sista. Maybe Stephanie can provide that link again? I believe it is gravatar.com or something like that.

  50. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 22, 2007 at5:14 pm 1 day, 12 hours after

    Calm down angry HATERATION!

    Ii will respect your opinion. Ok COOL! CTFU so hard my child turned RED in NJ. I wish you would meet me honey. Your ANGRY post above shows nothing but hatred and you seem to be madd I refuse to step down to your Tire name calling. I will always respond to you and defend myself when your haterd turns in to lies (like what’s posted above)!! Be in all you don’t sign none of my checks your not making valid points sweetie! Your hating on your own Kind. Your SEEM (not that you are, but you display in your post) to be an ANGRY BLACK SISTA! You’ll be ok, though. Why should I get over myself? I’m doing DAMN WELL FOR MYSELF, what can you say you’ve done!? Don’t get me stated on what accomplishments I’ve done for my black people as well. Honey I’ve giving the clothes off my back for my people. So you can call me less this and that!!! WHATEVER! You have no substance. The funny thing is I’ve prove that and it went right over your head.

    Oh an btw Ma, why would I not like you because of Beyonce. Like WHO DOES THAT????? WHO?… oh yeah YOU do! You don’t care for me because I like Beyonce and think she talented. Well “I” S. Dot don’t do that. My Man nor my Mother like beyonce. I guess I better disown them huh??? One more question, why would God take away from me? I worship him to the fullest and I’m sincere with mine. OH Yeah, I KNOW…..you know my relationship with GOD TOO! YEAH THAT’s RIGHT!!!

    :lol2: CTFU!

    Don’t hate on me for Doing my thing and making it on top in White America. Sit back, calm yourself down and turn all that frustration you have in to something positive for you and your future.

    Now can someone please tell me how to post pics????? :smile:

  51. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 22, 2007 at5:17 pm 1 day, 13 hours after

    [quote comment="7480"]S. Dot, you can add a gravatar (pic) via a link that was posted on brown sista. Maybe Stephanie can provide that link again? I believe it is gravatar.com or something like that.[/quote]

    Great thank you!!! I’ll try it when I get home. It’s time for me to leave and pick up my Angelface.

    I’ll try soon! Boy can I imagine the HATE from you know who when I get home. Thanks, Shunda :smile:

  52. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 22, 2007 at6:38 pm 1 day, 14 hours after

    LOL :lol2: there was nothing hateful about my post. You just like to use that word to label people when you can’t make them conform to think the way you want them to think. You have not proven anything to me but only that you are beneath my level in so many ways and that went right over your head. You don’t remember using profanity and writing in all caps which is a sign of anger. Example (HOW THE HELL are you going to tell me I don’t laugh my way at IMATURE HATERs ALL THE WAY TO THE BANK.) You are a compulsive liar and you put things in writing and forget what you wrote LOL :lol:. Apparently you are not anyone to hate on. You are just angry because I have not stooped to your level if anything. Now speaking about childish thats you all day long you are in denial about that also. Now in this last post you sound like some ghetto hood rat that just happened to get lucky. Once again calm down I can feel you’re angry through the screen. You have very, very, low self esteem and you use material possessions, position, and money to compensate your lack of esteem. Go ahead put your picture up if you are pretty then I will say you are pretty as simple as that LOL :lol: . But how you look will not stop me from saying how I feel. See how superficial you are I told you and you just put your foot in your own mouth. If anyone is a hater it’s you and you have proven that time and time again but you are too ignorant and shallow minded to realize that you are. And you have put others down (To me I noticed (NOT SAYING You or ANY ONE ON HERE) a lot of women who aren’t so secure with themselves HATE on Beyonce. Especially BLACk WOMEN.) That statement was narrow-minded and not true. Someone might not find her favorable and that’s just their opinion. You are psycho I notice that about a lot of people who attack others about her. Now you are trying to get pretty parker to be on your side because you have no back bone to finish what you started by yourself. You are angry because I don’t share the same opinion about Beyonce as you just admit it. You are a very low minded person. You think that you are winning but you are not LOL :noway:. I don’t have to sign your pay check S.Dot but seriously you need to seek some professional help soon. One other thing who says that I am a black woman? You came to that conclusion in your little delusional mind. See you are too silly to realize that you are making racial statements. In case you don’t know the definition according to Merriam Webster, (Racial- means of, relating to, or based on a race). Once again your quote, (To me I noticed (NOT SAYING You or ANY ONE ON HERE) a lot of women who aren’t so secure with themselves HATE on Beyonce. Especially BLACk WOMEN.) See I told you were a lost soul and did not know it see how you say things and you are not even intelligent enough to know what you are saying. Once again go and find yourself a life because apparently you do not have one :lol: :iagree: .

  53. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at9:29 am 2 days, 5 hours after

    Real Talk Yeah GREAT! :lol2:

    [quote comment="7480"]S. Dot, you can add a gravatar (pic) via a link that was posted on brown sista. Maybe Stephanie can provide that link again? I believe it is gravatar.com or something like that.[/quote]

    I’m going to try to post a pic now. :smile:

  54. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at10:20 am 2 days, 6 hours after

    S.Dot yeah get a life :lol2: :thumbsup:

  55. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at10:26 am 2 days, 6 hours after

    [quote comment="7531"]S.Dot yeah get a life :lol2: :thumbsup:[/quote]

    I have one my love! Read my previous post I told you ALL ABOUT ME!!!! :mrgreen:

    Now leave me alone and never ever think about speaking to me again. I don’t deal with HATERS! That’s all you do is hate and put me down. So you can do it all by your self. I’ve spoken, I’ve stood by my words. Oh and it’s obvious I’ve proved my point!! I’m done arguing with you. Your never going to be a person who agree to disagree. :dance1: :smile:

  56. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at11:04 am 2 days, 6 hours after

    S.dot you may have a positon and a little bit of money but that does not mean you have a life. As far as being a hater that’s your style based on your posts you’re nothing to hate on. I just shut haters down just like i did you. If you are not a hater then why were you just putting Ciara’s singing ability down on another post from Brown Sista LIAR. As long as you continue to hate on my opinion I will continue to talk to you so put up or shut up PSHYCO. As far as making a point the only point you made was you can’t agree to disagree without labeling or hating. So you seriously need to take your own advice because you are in denial. Like I said before go and get a life and some self-esteem too :hater:

  57. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at11:38 am 2 days, 7 hours after

    I’m a Psycho. GREAT! LOVE IT!

    In all I’ve been to Ciara’s Concerts have you!!!??? I don’t just talk out of my A** I speak FACT. Little one! The Entire time no one heard one note but man did that girl DANCE! OMG she moved her butt off. You can continue to talk to me! I’ll do the same. You’re not on my level so it’s fun to stoop down to yours. As long as you know “MY STATUS” as you stated above….then I’M HAPPY! :thumbsup:

    ..So funny first I need to get over myself (Too much self esteem) CTFU :lol2:

    Now, I need to get some Self Esteem. You’re a Typing contradiction. Now how can anyone take you serious? :lol2:

  58. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at12:36 pm 2 days, 8 hours after

    S.Dot you wish you were on my level. I have been having fun laughing at you the entire time. Even when you were using profanity and blowing smoke. You are just catching on and now you are trying to get on my level but you can’t LOL :lol: . But you just don’t get it and you never will. So just to let you know I have been to a Beyonce concert and I stated facts. She is mediocre and over hyped accross the board. I never told you that you had too much self-esteem I always told you had low self esteem. And yes you do need to get over your delusional ego. It’s a fine line between low self esteem and over hyped egos. You have to convince yourself because no one else will that you are special. I agree you are a real ****** ignorant :lol: Notice I said you may have a position and a little money I did not say that you have those things. Do you know what may means? Apparently not so you need to ask yourself whose the typing contradiction and that would be you the biggest loser :loser: :lol2: I still say you are a low self esteem :hater: with no life :lol:

  59. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at12:40 pm 2 days, 8 hours after

    WHOW some one is ANGRY!! CTFU!!

    You need a man! You need a vacation on an island some where. That’s usually what I do when I’m stressed. Please let me know if you need a travel coordinator to book your trip. I can help you out. Also I know a great places in CA,and NY that you can get a massage. It sounds like you need one of those too! :smile:

    Hell I’m ready to buy you one cause I know you can’t afford it. May be that’s why your so angry and telling me what I am.

    …oh yeah you know me, my whole life. :lol2:

  60. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at12:48 pm 2 days, 8 hours after

    [quote comment="7480"]S. Dot, you can add a gravatar (pic) via a link that was posted on brown sista. Maybe Stephanie can provide that link again? I believe it is gravatar.com or something like that.[/quote]

    Hi Pretty Packer,

    I’ve tried and I can’t do it. I even called my IT Friend over to help me and he couldn’t get it either.

    How do I get in touch with Stephiane?

  61. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at12:58 pm 2 days, 8 hours after

    LOL S. Dot there is no need to try and turn your anger or frustrations on me. My predictions are coming forth that you were raised with nothing. The way you dwell on material attractions of the world just proves my statement. I hate to burst your bubble but the islands CA, NY and then some I have already been there and done that :lol: . As a matter of fact I just got back from the islands with my significant other something you don’t have :loser: . Too bad you are still not on my level try again :hater: . So stop trying to repeat what I’ve said. We all know that you don’t have a man I have already told you that in a previous post. You just have a baby daddy and a lesbian lover that’s why you fight over Beyonce :lol2: :dance:

  62. prettyparker said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at12:58 pm 2 days, 8 hours after

    You’ll need to use the same email address that you use for this site when you register at gravatar.com. When you upload your photo and edit it via their tool, you’ll need to save it and assign it as your gravatar. Admittedly, it took me a while to figure that out when I first tried. :confused:

    Stephanie? Anyone? Suggestions for S.Dot w/rt her gravatar?

  63. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at1:08 pm 2 days, 8 hours after

    [quote comment="7552"]LOL S. Dot there is no need to try and turn your anger or frustrations on me. My predictions are coming forth that you were raised with nothing. The way you dwell on material attractions of the world just proves my statement. I hate to burst your bubble but the islands CA, NY and then some I have already been there and done that :lol: . As a matter of fact I just got back from the islands with my significant other something you don’t have :loser: . Too bad you are still not on my level try again :hater: . So stop trying to repeat what I’ve said. We all know that you don’t have a man I have already told you that in a previous post. You just have a baby daddy and a lesbian lover that’s why you fight over Beyonce :lol2: :dance:[/quote]

    Who’s talking about Beyonce? Who right now? YOUR the funniest thing ever! Ok so you’ve been to the Islands. Your parents must have hooked you up huh?

    CTFU! :lol2:

    Any way, Lesbian. OOHHHHHHHH wow what else do I have. BTW sweetie, my man comes home to me everynight. BTW if I can post a pic I’ll show our pics we took last night, oh on his birthday’s and all. I don’t mind. That’s why I’m not ANGRY and always coming back too “YOU HATE ME CAUSE I DON”T LIKE BEE THIS AND THAT” WACK CHICK! “REAL” WACK!

    How can I get madd at you!! YOU don’t know me or my truth of my life.

    My man, my BEAUTIFUL Daughter is taking care of WELL!!!! He comes home everynight and we are soooo in love my “REAL WACK A^^”! :lol2:

    Call me materialistic if you want too. WHO CARES!!! BLAH BLAH BLAH! Give me something new. :smile:

    You need to go back to an Island, CA, or NY. Matter of fact I work in NY in the Chysler Building. It’s reight down the street from Bliss Spa. I’ll make you an reservation. MY TREAT!! :mrgreen:

    Like Mya said, if you don’t have 10 haters your nothing!!

    HATE ON REAL WACK HATE ON! :lol2:

  64. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at1:13 pm 2 days, 8 hours after

    [quote comment="7553"]You’ll need to use the same email address that you use for this site when you register at gravatar.com. When you upload your photo and edit it via their tool, you’ll need to save it and assign it as your gravatar. Admittedly, it took me a while to figure that out when I first tried. :confused:

    Stephanie? Anyone? Suggestions for S.Dot w/rt her gravatar?[/quote]

    Cool Beans! Let me try one more time!

    I thank you for helping me! For real! :smile:

  65. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at1:22 pm 2 days, 9 hours after

    [quote comment="7555"][quote comment="7553"]You’ll need to use the same email address that you use for this site when you register at gravatar.com. When you upload your photo and edit it via their tool, you’ll need to save it and assign it as your gravatar. Admittedly, it took me a while to figure that out when I first tried. :confused:

    Stephanie? Anyone? Suggestions for S.Dot w/rt her gravatar?[/quote]

    Cool Beans! Let me try one more time!

    I thank you for helping me! For real!

    :smile:[/quote]

    Oh and nice pics on your site!!!! :smile:

    I’m on that Gravatar.com now! I’m going to try again!! :smile:

  66. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at1:55 pm 2 days, 9 hours after

    :sad:

    I can’t get it!!!

    But thank you!!! I did try! I may have to upload it from my home computer. I have too many restrictions at work. :smile:

  67. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at4:27 pm 2 days, 12 hours after

    :mrgreen: S. Dot once again take your own advice because you are the real hater. I see you still have not found a life. You would love to have haters to make you feel good about yourself but you don’t have any it’s all in your little delusional mind. Wow you are sad you really want people to be jealous of you :lol2: Is that really your man that comes home every night or is it someone elses who just uses you for sex and then goes to his real home :lol2: . Where is your husband my bad you are too dumb to have one of those. Besides he must not be doing his job right because you are on here blowing smoke over a women humm maybe you sleep with them too :lol: . You are just mad because I am not a fan of Beyonce’s and you can’t persude me to be so get over it suck it up and live. You could die for her for all I care you would only do this board a favor. I see you still keep on lying you said on two different occassions that you were done posting but you are still here saying much of nothing please save your energy because you make no sense. S. Dot I don’t want or need your money I got my own. As a matter of fact I just left New York Monday. Better yet you should save your own money and give it to that broke loser you sleep with every night he needs your money so he can buy you gifts :lol: :iagree: . If anyone is wack child it’s you very materalistic and needy. If you do have anything which i doubt enjoy for now because with all that useless bragging and lying you will eventually fail. Rich people and people with a lot of money don’t go around and talk about having money. Most of the time they don’t want a lot of people to know. So that’s how I know you are not all that you claim to be and was raised like a hood rat. I see you still haven’t developed any substance to your posts or your character. For the record you are still a lost soul with no class. You are just a wannabe so to the left to the left because you are wack. :loser: Like T.I. says you might as well stop hating because you are not stopping anything :booty: You have done a lot of talking and still have not once said or proven anything but that you are :hater: with no life :lol: :dance:

  68. S. Dot said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at5:16 pm 2 days, 13 hours after

    Real Wack,

    Please Prove how I’m a hater? Who did I hate on if they didn’t hate on me first?

    WHO? You don’t know!?

    For the record, I could CARE LESS IF you Love Bee, Hate Bee. Want to kill Bee! Wants’ to have sex with BEE!! WHO CARES!??????? Not me! PLEASE LITTLE ONE! PLEASE!

    I just like reading responses from people and getting insight on whey they think the way they do about certain things…..except you. You just think up BS in your head, think it’s right and post! SAD! :|

    Next LIE!

    My man sleeps with everyone? Yeah ok. BTW his job is better than MINE! He’s in the music business and is the Head Mgr of his department. So can we say PAID!
    Plus miss “I KNOW ALL AOBUT S.DOT” Do you even know who my daughters father is???? My man’s father was a GREAT Doctor and well know Politician in Nigeria. My Daughters Grandfather has millions, in which was inherited to my man and his brothers and mom after he passed away three years ago. So know, REAL WACK, I don’t’ have time from BROKE men with bad credit (I don’t so why should I settle?) Tip for ya :grin:

    But that’s why I have my own MONEY and I invest every chance I can just in case. My mother didn’t raise a dependant to men young women, REAL WACK!!! :grin:
    Also the husband thing…. LETS GO HERE Since you know me. I turned my man down IN FRONT OF HIS MOTHER when he proposed to me when I was 3 months pregnant! I don’t want to be married right now. I’m too young. I felt my pregnancy was something we both had to man up and deal with, since we were careless. NO my daughter wasn’t planned, but I would die without her! That’s my heart and his…and our Princess LOVES US BACK! But he wants to get married and soon! I don’t, not right now! :smile:

    But you should know this because you’re talking like you’ve known me for YEARS GIRL!!!!! :smile:

    I was done posting but you keep lying on me (I know, I’ve proven myself numerous times) but your keep making false accusations. I must correct you :smile: Want to know why, because YOUR NOT GOING TO MAKE UP STUFF ABOUT ME, MY MAN AND MY LIFE. You could never get that and never will and I will constantly shut you down when it comes to me and my life.

    So back to “ME” REAL WACK!!!!! :mrgreen:

    He comes home every night YES! I don’t have a problem. If he decides he don’t want to come home, COOL! My child and I will be alright. Of course, I’ll be sad at first. We’ve been together 4 years. But I don’t worry about things I can’t control. But when it comes to my man, oh he’s taken care of lovely. That’s why he isn’t going anywhere. This if funny I was just telling my boss today, why I don’t want to marry my man right now too! WOW, did you call my boss? CTFU!!!!! :lol2:

    Wait you should call my boss. Maybe you could get a job so you could do something worthwhile!!! Instead of HATE ON a TRUE WOEMN DOING HER THING to better herself for her further as well as her child!!! Of course your opinions REALLY AFTER ALL THIS don’t matter because, nothing I do will be appeasing to you. If I tell you God himself said the sky is blue, you’ll hate on that if I have anything to do with it. CTFU. I haven’t had a hater hate on me, my life, my job, now my man in a while and I love to keep posting because your sooo over in left field and I keep proving you wrong when it comes to MY LIFE!!! Isn’t that IRONIC!!???? :smiles:

    You’re the only one who thinks I’m this and that, why? Why do you think, is it because you don’t have a quarter of what I have? Oh I know you want to be Beyonce and you’re not!?
    I don’t even think you know why your arguing with me over MY LIFE. PSYCHO!
    CTFU! :lol2:

  69. prettyparker said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at6:21 pm 2 days, 14 hours after

    :lol: You two have kept the Hot 100 List my favorite post for two days!

    *I just found out what CTFU means. Now I’m the one who’s CTFU! :lol2:

  70. Real Talk said,

    Gravatar IconMay 23, 2007 at8:01 pm 2 days, 15 hours after

    Now speaking of wack and Psyco you un-wed mother take your own advice. You started hating on me because you are a useless angry hater in denial. I knew you did not have a husband because you are not about anything superficial materialistic things. Now you are making up lies saying you did not want to get married he just did not want you but only using you for sex and that’s why you got angry at me because I struck a chord and brought you out. Now you are telling lies saying I want to be Beyonce LOL you are really crazy and delusional. Why would any decent person with morals, standards, and substance want to be like you or Beyonce LOL