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  1. Many women are already sharing men they just don’t know it.

  2. I get sad at even the thought of something like this.

    I only hope no woman is willing to sink as low.

  3. Dana and some women are sharing low class,uneducated,unloving,unfriendly,unhealthy,disabled,broke,good for nothing males and they know it.

    It’s all a shame if you ask me.
    If there were not enough good men for me to have one I’d dedicate my body to God.Jesus would be my man.

  4. I don’t have one to share, but let one walk into my life…I wouldn’t do God that disservice of giving away what He tailored for me. (Pressed lips & Side eye) “Chick Please”

  5. Hell to the no I would not share my man with another woman…

    CHILE PLEASE!

  6. I KNOW MY SELF WORTH!! I PITY THE WOMEN/MEN WHO SHARE …..TO LIVE A LIFE NOT KNOWING YOUR SELF WORTH TAKING LOVE AT ANY COST JUST TO GET AFFECTION, CASH OR WHATEVER YOU FEEL THE NEED TO GET YOU A TEMPORARY FIX….THAT IS ALL IT IS TEMPORARY HAPPINESS. THEN ONCE YOU GET YOUR OWN MAN/WOMAN YOU LIVE WITH THE INSECURTIES OF THE SAME THING HAPPENING TO YOU…SO TELL ME IS IT WORTH IT? MY SISTERS AND BROTHERS WHO ARE SINGLE…PRAY AND WAIT.

  7. I would not “knowingly” share my man. There has been instances when I found out that the man I was seeing was also seeing someone else. So I ended the relationship.
    I agree that all women should know and understand their self-worth. If you allow yourself to stay with a man and you know that he is sleeping with someone else (male or female) then you have allowed yourself to accept that situation.
    A MAN WILL ONLY DO WHAT YOU ALLOW HIM TO DO TO YOU!!!!!
    Every young lady and all women should understand this and relay this information to all female family and friends. Many women learn this much, much too late in life. If women respected their bodies and minds they would make better choices for the men in their lives.

  8. I don’t think so and on purpose? This is extremely tacky with Hiv, Aids and STD’s running wild and people running aroung acting as if their genitals are timed ticking bombs ready to explode so they must do everything in site. As for myself hell no I dont share my man and I would not condone cheating on me, I’d kick his a** and leave him for good because my self worth and self esteem would not allow me to be treated like a jump off, side line girl or anything else. It’s either love me All the way or leave me Alone.

  9. I guess i will be the only man to say something . There’s an article written in OUR TIMES MAGAZINE , it’s an Los Angeles based free publication that addresses BLACK POLYGAMY it’s very interesting i think some of you should check it out. On the other hand if more brothers would stop and really think they wouldn’t mess with more than one woman. There is NO SUCH THING AS FREE SEX…….. All the time you put in to extra relationships you could be putting in to building WEALTH.. imagine all the money spent on dinning , purchases, the time spent on not being seen and ducking and dodging . My message to any brothers on this page which ever one is not taking care of your needs move on. THE BLACK POLYGAMY ARTICLE addresses issues of single parenting, the lack of black men in the home, financial issues and the cheating factor. there are a growing number of African Americans that have decided to go this route . i’m not condoning it just some information

  10. HELL NO! My mind is too crazy when it comes to my man. I could see myself whipping his ass in his sleep in the middle of the night just from thinking about what him an another woman! That kinda thing get people killed, thrown in prison, or both.

  11. white folks do it all the time. Look at Utah, colorado and wyoming. Lol that’s what i love about sistas’ i know when BLACKSISTA wrote that she had her neck going. Nothing in the world like a good black woman. i was watching the game over my boys house and his wife came home and he goes into his i’m that man act,like hurry up and go on outta here she looked at him and said ni**a you aint my dady u just my husband. i just thought that sh*t was funny as hell it was like five of us we love that attitude

  12. Sense there are very few men here, i guess i will have to stand in defense of us. Yes some men cheat , but according to statistics women actually cheat more. What most women don’t know is Most men don’t want to cheat, yes ladies most men would rather get everything they need right at home. As men there is something about us , it’s called being lazy , if you were ever to talk to men and not just believe what you have heard about men you’ll find out a hell of allot. Most of all you could save your relationship from the headache of your man cheating. first Cheating is expensive, in more ways than one ; financial, time consuming, and emotional. The law of the land is there IS THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FREE SEX. Selfishness and bad communication is usually the main reason why relationship run into these issues . When we as MEN COME TO YOU AND TELL YOU EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT AND WHAT WE NEED SEXUALLY AND NON SEXUALLY it’s a good idea to pay attention. the numbers go from 12 to 1 to 7 to 1 women to men some women even on this page may be willing to share a GOOD MAN if he’s in a situation where he may not leave due to financial lock down . Trust me if it wasn’t for alimony and child support many woman would lose their husbands to the other woman. If you are not giving us the very best of you don’t think for a moment the mental rolodex of ex- women and other women don’t roll through our minds. if he has a good job there’s a chance another sista is looking at us. She just maybe tired of going at it all alone and you have taken us for granted. Most brothers might even say it to you like that , but trust me out of 20 cats i hang around with at least 17 would leave if they could afford to.

  13. so don’t think if your man does cheat you didnt help push him out there. in fact a buddy of mine didn’t cheat was about to but his wife caught him. Yes she cried and was pissed , but she wouldn’t have sex with the brother for almost two months. What do you think we are going to do after we beg and plead .

  14. I think it’s pretty sad if women think they have to make compromises in life to be happy.

    If the only way you can get a guy is to share, then some counselling is in order to see why, and what you can change. You can only control yourself and what you do, not what others do, and you can even get to a point where you don’t let others ‘dictate’ how you feel.

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