Via our forum member, Soul Cry:
Is it your business to know to how many people your partner has been with in the past ? Would you ask?
And if they told you, and the number was high…would it turn you off? What if it’s a closed book of their past? What if their name is widely known for that past?
Do you think men and women should be weighed differently on this scale? How many is too many for a woman, how many for a man?
And which is worse: (1) multiple partners or (2) few partners, but more adventures (swinging, three-somes, etc)
Ok, so Beyonce is married and Rihanna is off somewhere performing in bondage. In other words, all is well within the world of Black Entertainment, so why don’t we talk about something else. How about the “S” word. No, not science- the other “S” word: SEX. Now I am going to try and keep this post as g-rated as possible and I ask that you all do the same with your responses- while keeping it totally honest of course.
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Ever run into someone or just pass by folks and they ask “How ya doing?” But you know they don’t really care cause they don’t even stop to wait for your answer? Well, in the spirit of mushiness and just because I haven’t much felt like posting celebrity news lately, I take this moment to ask each and everyone of you who visits this blog daily- How are you- really?
Like most of you I have been thinking about the Presidential Elections lately. Many Americans have been consumed with the fact that we may possibly have a woman or Black man as the nation’s next leader. However, I have been consumed with the fact that we may very well be on the verge of not only having a Black President, but a Black First Lady as well. Now, we can all be honest here and admit that we probably all felt that if ever a Black man was to ascend to the highest office in the land, chances are his wife would not have been Black. Thus we may have had a Brotha at the top, but not a sista, which would have been a hollow victory for Black women as we also want and need to ourselves at the top as well. This all of course leads me to our “Question Of The Day” as posted on Cocoa Lounge.
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Not literally of course- unless you’re into that kind of thing (lol). But seriously, if you were someone else and you met yourself exactly as you are today- would you date yourself? Are you dateable at the moment? What do you have to offer another person in a relationship? Are you happy with yourself? Do you love yourself? Do you need someone else to love you first?
Yeah- I have a lot of questions tonight…
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Hey Ladies- and Gentlemen!
It’s that time of year. What are your Vday plans? What types of things do you want on that day from your significant other? Now, dream big…what’s the ultimate Vday wish/date/plan for you, start to finish?
1. My name is not Stephanie.
2. I shave my eyebrows off and then draw them back on.
3. Writing about celebrities everyday actually bores me to tears.
4. I am totally bored right now.
Your turn…