We all would like our mates to stay the same through out the relationship as the first day we met. Sometimes it just doesn’t happen.
At what pound is too much to handle? Why not after maybe 10 to 15 pounds weight gain a conversation takes place in a nice considerate manner because we don’t just wake up one morning 30 pounds heavier. How about offering to exercise together. I know the women may be a little sensitive about the weight subject, especially if after having kids. But I think the person would appreciate it better if there was a plan to handle the task together rather than insulting remarks or going out to cheat. Running away from the issue never solves anything; try resolving the issue first before it gets out of control. Again, communication is golden.
Tell me your story, have you had this battle with weight gain. Is it okay to gain weight in the relationship?
Ask Y and X features real life issues in relationships, the common daily discussed situations. For more post like this visit us, www.askyandx.blogspot.com
Have a subject you want to discuss, write me at firstname.lastname@example.org