Taken from The Cocoa Lounge
Sistas- and brothas if you are reading this as well- What if any are your fears when it comes to relationships and dealing with members of the opposite sex?
Read my response from the forum on the next page and do add your own thoughts as well.
Originally posted by Wamuiru
being hurt again.
I don’t think I have this ability anymore. I think it is because I view love and relationships differently now that I am older. All that boo-hoo-hoo stuff and getting all wrapped up in other individual just doesn’t make any sense to me. I cannot fathom myself crying because a relationship has ended or someone doesn’t want me anymore. As I see it, people are meant to come into our lives for a certain amount of time and do what they do and leave. Each relationship is an experience we need to teach us something. Now that time may be a year or a few years but whatever the case, the notion of being “hurt” simply because another person decides to leave me is just quite foreign to me at this stage in my life. And so to answer the question- nothing. Nothing scares me about relationships or dealing with the opposite sex.