I was reading a women’s magazine last night that said if a man does not spend money on you then he does not care for or really like you. I quickly jumped on the phone and called my Grandmother and Father who both verified the above statement to indeed be true. I later on hit up a few female friends who swore up and down this was not true and proceeded to make all types of excuses as to why a man would never spend money on a woman he claimed to care for. For the record, I believe the above statement to be one hundred percent true and I’m not buying that “maybe he is broke” excuse either. People spend money on things they care about, be it themselves, their home, their children, their car… whatever. Broke or not, a man with any interest in you at all is going to find a way to materialistically show you that he cares.
In response to another poster, Jeneen also said:
I did not say the relationship was based on money, I simply said that if a man never spends money on you or buys you anything he does not care. Giving people things is a fundamental way in which we show people we care…. this is a fact. When men want to impress women they generally do it with their wallets, I.E taking her out, blah, blah, blah. I don’t care how broke someone claims to be, if they care they will show it with their wallets… that is what men do and most of you men here have done it at some point in time.
Alright brothas and sistas- speak on it…