There is clear evidence that your husband/boyfriend has disrespected your relationship. You have had an uneasy feeling that something isn’t right between the two of you lately- which drives you to start snooping around. Now you have found yourself checking voicemails, text messages and e-mail. Ah-ha! You have stumbled onto what you have been looking for; but now that you see it, is this truly what you wanted to find? E-mails of conversations with other women that are obviously more than just platonic friends, even meeting dates they have had. What do you do? Will you approach him about this? But wait- you snooped so are you in the wrong to say something? Maybe you will just ignore it as if it never happened because you want to keep your man? You know he cheated… but now what?