The relationship is not so great, but it’s not horrible either. The best thing about the relationship is the sex. We don’t have any complaints in the bedroom, we do it all the time any and everywhere. And my partner does all kind of wild things that’s hard to find someone else to do. We have a good time hanging out as friends we club, party and drink/smoke together; but there are no plans of marriage in the future. I just don’t have those kind of feelings or see her as wife material. Matter of fact if the sex wasn’t so good I would have been left; but we have now been together over 3 years. I sometimes date other people my partner doesn’t know about. Now she’s pregnant! She wants to get married and have a family. Only she doesn’t know how I really feel. I know this is going to hurt her, but I don’t want to marry her. I’m not sure if I should tell her or when it’s a good time; she is really excited about this. Mean while I wish this was a nightmare I could wake up from. What should I do?
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