Kim Porter Speaks Out
Kim Porter, part-time model, part-time actress, and full-time fool for Sean Diddy Combs, has broken her silence and is speaking out to OK Magazine about what led her to finally leave the man she had attempted to build a family with for the past 10 years. On her reasons for leaving the relationship Kim says:
Search Brown Sista for more: Kim Porter“I’d been in an on-again, off-again relationship with Mr. Combs for about 10 years, and it came to a point where it was time for me to move on with my life. I had invested a lot of time in that relationship, and it wasn’t going where it should have been going. So it was time to [end it]. In a relationship, it’s important that the people are on the same page at the same time. And we weren’t on the same page.”
On His Alleged Cheating: “I will never sit here and say that Puffy — or any man — is 100 percent faithful. I just don’t believe it. Some of you are, but I’m not going to sit here and say that I didn’t believe that he cheated on me. I would never say that. I’m aware that he’s cheated.”And on J.Lo’s relationship with Diddy: “It was an embarrassment. I never thought it was real. I knew what was going on with him. Despite what you see in print and when the cameras are flashing, what’s going on in someone’s heart may be totally different. He was still [in love] with me. I never looked at their relationship [as serious].”
When asked if Sienna Miller played a part in her break up, Porter states: “They’re just friends. That wasn’t the cause.”
The remainder of this tattletale interview will be available on newsstands tomorrow! Get in line!
kary said,
She’s a fool but good thing she wised up, finally.
JBL said,
I can’t believe knowing Diddy cheated on her she actually thinks he is not seeing Sienna Miller when he so obviously is. Watch Diddy marry this White woman or some other and really leave Kim looking the fool.
Fine-N-Mellow said,
Damn it took her 10 years to see that they were not on the same page. She should have seen that when he dumped her a short while after having his son for Jennifer Lopez… and she got back with him. Some women think they can change a man, especially after bearing his children. A Dog is a Dog. She should Love herself and her kids more. We all make mistakes, Im glad she finally woke up and stop letting that man treat her like a doormat.
Stef said,
ALL MEN DON’T CHEAT!…But I guess when you’ve been dogged out for 10 years that’s your preception of men in general because you don’t now what it feels like to be respected…It’s really ashame that some women sale themselves short by buying into that “ALL MEN ARE DOGS” bullStuff, or maybe some women accept their men cheating and use that line as an excuse not to leave…Although kim made some valid points, theres a part of her that sounds so stupid and still in denial about what’s really happening…And to keep saying that Puffy and Jlo’s relationship wasn’t real when he still states to this day that he truly loved Jennifer, she sounds like a delusional fool…I think that when a woman deals with a certain kind of man for so long or if she experiences true love or a first love experience with a certain kind of man (cheater, abuser, liar ect)it sometimes sets a pattern of expectations or brainwahes her into believing or expecting certain things out of a man, which are negative or short comings…We all know a woman who always seems to get involved with the cheater or abuser and we ask why she always end up in bad relationships, kim is a perfect example…If you believe all men cheat you will accept a man being a cheat… But at least shes left Diddy (for now) I hope she has learned her lesson.
Just goes to show you that money can’t buy love or respect.
CECE said,
I am glad that Miss Porter did open her eyes fully. Unfortunatly, she built a family and tried her best to make a man out of this person. The fact that he cheated is neither here or there. Everybody knows he did. Just move on with your life and make the best out of what came from it. You do have four beautiful children, three from him. Keep your relationship open because you need that so the children can have healthy relationships. If you do decide to go back (because many of us have not dated anyone of his stature or money)make sure it is on YOUR terms, not his. love yourself
Tia said,
First of all Diddy really needs to settle down he is not getting any younger, i don’t know why people think they are missing something in a relationship when real love is right in the relationship with the women or man you have, i don’t understand why it’s so hard for black relationships to last long. And im not gonna sit here and say all MEN cheat and all WOMEN cheat (WE ALL KNOW THAT) that’s really not the point im tryin’ to tell here the point is DON’T KEEP MESSIN’AROUND WITH SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT LOVE YOU
MsRebecca said,
She was smart to leave, I don’t believe he was looking for a relationship anytime soon.. He now has 4 children and appears to enjoy creating them, but not committing to their mothers.
Smokie said,
Kim isn’t really THAT worried about Puff — don’t be misunderstood. I don’t think she’s a fool either. I think she got caught up in the LIFE of fame. Having a faithful man (or being a wife) wasn’t as important as living a rich life with all the privelges that being Puff’s CURRENT girlfriend bought. Now, she’s still rich, but she doesn’t have that status.
I think he left her. She was fine with things as they were. Not all women are into monogamous love. Some just don’t give a fk when money is involved.
It was all about the Benjamins…
Smokie said,
And she knows that he and Sienna are fooling around. She just said that to keep the money flowing. It’s not about love….
chey said,
Why does Kim have to include Jennifer Lopez’s name in every interview that she does. It is obvious that she is bitter and very jealous of J-Lo because she knows that Diddy was infatuated with this woman. And given the chance, he would have married J-Lo in a heartbeat. J-Lo has moved on with her life and never speaks negative about her peers or ex-lovers. Kim is just pissed because she kicked out three babies for his cheating butt and he still had no intentions of marrying her. She needs to get a job and get over it. She made a fool of herself. When will women like her learn that you can’t change a man and having his baby to secure the relationship is the oldest trick in the book.
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jummpy said,
I’m Glad she finally left.But yes all men are not dogs but it’s what you willing to put up with,that’s with all women.But i this just a personal opinion you can say what you want let’s keep it 100 sound like a little jealousy or envy because he had feel something for tha girl for you to be salty like you are.
S. Dot said,
She need to admit that her Puff is DL. She couldn’t continue to risk her life and her children. Not to mention he’s not very nice.
LaideeLuv said,
I believe Kim P. has very low self esteem. Any other woman who loved herself would have left P Diddy alone years ago. She is so caught up in her own conceived illusions that he truly loves/ed her. If he did, he would never had cheated on her countless times and in such a blantant manner.He may have just been in lust with her, but that is not love nor is it enough. She needs to wake up and face the reality that he saw he as a trophy piece in which he quickly grew tired. The only reason it “lasted” was she seemed to have thrown herself at him over and over and convieniently had children with him. Kim needs to get over it and move on. She needs to start loving herself and focus more on those children, making sure to teach the love of self to those daughters. In the end, Diddy will get what’s coming to him. He will see he is not the end all and be all as he thinks. Karma is a b-.