When I was about… 19, and maybe up to my early 20’s, I preferred for my men to have a swagger that included the baggy jeans, and name brand over sized t-shirts with the classic sneakers. Now that I am approaching my 30’s I am swaying away from that. No longer do I desire to see a man that I am dating in constant baggy saggy jeans with big ass chains around their neck. Especially when I do not even where a lot of jewelry. I need more eye candy for further stimulation brothas. There should be a cut off point in age where an array of Rainbow Brite Air Forces Ones are the only shoes in your closet. What if I want to go out to dinner or somewhere where the attire does not call for the newest Jordans?
Am I alone in this ladies? Am I the only one that is over a 35 year old brotha trying to holla at you with a pair of saggy jeans on and fruity colored Air Force Ones? Before I get attacked, let me say that I am not knocking a man for dressing this way. It is only when it becomes an every day affair that it also becomes played out. Throw some variety in there. Give me that grown man appeal. Entice me with you wearing a nice button up or at least some khakis and a nice pair of casual shoes. It does not even have to be expensive. However, give me some visual stimulation. The same visual stimulation that men expect from women we should receive. Laziness is not going to get you anywhere. It is time that the fellas put in the effort to keep their complete package tight in the same fashion as they expect from us. Ladies, do you agree or disagree?