Ladies, Would You Leave Your Man If He Was Too Good To You?

When I first saw this episode of Divorce Court, I guessed that it was a set-up. You know, some sort of mock case created by the producers and played out by two struggling actors, in this case comediennes. There is no way that ANY women would actually be foolish enough to leave a good man who treats her well and is damn near begging her to stay. Especially with all of the trolls disguising themselves as men running around American cities. To make matters worse, her reasoning for leaving is because “he treats her too good”. You have to watch the video to understand the foolery. To see the video click here

I still am not completely convinced that it was completely factual but the reality is that there are women who are like this women in the video. So self centered and so selfish because of how they may have been treated in the past by one man that they lack the ability to appreciate a man who truly loves and cares for them. The good guys are considered lame and boring. They do not trust his intentions and on some level, do not believe that they are worth being treated well. In the video she never had a real complaint about her husband which leads me to believe that he was a good guy. She may have been hurt so many times in the past that her motto is “I’m going to look out for myself! Forget all that!”. Looking out for yourself should be a primary intention however, as long as there is a balance. Not everyone comes to your life to mistreat you. My question to the women is have you ever been with a man who was good to you and you were the one that dissolved the relationship because of your actions? Is it true that women sometimes do not “trust” a man being good to them, as the wife in the video put it, and therefore reject him? in this case it seems that this woman is use to dealing with dudes named Taiwon who cheat on her and come over to use her car, sex her up, eat her food and bounce. Instead of saying “I love you” two or three times a week he probably says “can I borrow 5 dollars?” Poor space cadet woman does not know any better.

I look at women like that as lost little girls. They want love because it is a natural desire but they on some level do not feel worthy of it. When they finally have it they reject it or find a way to ruin it. It may be because they are afraid that the walls will come crashing down at some point and want to go ahead and ruin it themselves rather than waiting and ultimately being hurt by the man. They also may not truly want to be loved although they think they do because that is what all of their female friends want so they believe that they should want it as well. However, once they receive have no clue what to do with it. This concept goes for men and women.The truth of the matter is that you usually get what you feel you are worth. That is not just with men but with all things in life. Usually if you feel you are worth having a better job then you go after it and it comes to you. If you desire the finer things in life then you set out to have them and they come to you at some point. The first step is to decide that you are worthy of having those things that you desire and to hold on to that without wavering.

To See The Video Of The Case Please Go To:

www.Yeahshesaidit.com

5 Comments

  1. If someone would leave a man becausse he is too good to her she wasn’t ready for him and needs a lot of counseling because that is just not normal behavior.

  2. Some women and men is used to no good men and women. When they finally get them they do not know how to act. I seen some women and men that have disrespect there good men and women in public. When they have a bad boy or girl they love getting disrespect by them. It just the era we living in. If i have to through the stuff that the women and men put up with I CAN DO BAD BY MYSELF.

  3. I remember this episode…… I don’t get rotten women and I remember this feeling so sad and bad that it was a black woman. *sighs*

  4. AND YET WOMEN COMPLAIN ABOUT HOW THERE ARE NO GOOD BLACK MEN AROUND.SMH. I THINK SHE JUST WANTED TO BE ON TV, BECAUSE THIS IS THE MOST IGNORANT ISH IVE SEEN, BUT THE JUDGE TOOK THE WORDS RIGHT OUT OF MY MOUTH. AT 5:15 TO 6:10. IF SHE FINDS A GOOD THING, SHE WILL NOT SEE IT, BECAUSE SHE IS SO USED TO STUPIDITY WITH OTHER MEN, HER IDEA OF LOVE IS DISTORTED. MAYBE WHEN SHE WAS GROWING UP SHE DIDN’T GET SHOWN ENOUGH LOVE, OR HER PARENTS DIDN’T CARE FOR EACH OTHER. WILL SHE TEACH HER DAUGHTERS THAT AN IGNORANT, SELF ABSORBED, EGOTISTICAL, SEXIST, HARD HEARTED MAN IS THE IDEAL?

  5. i feel some ppl dont know what good is until its gone, or have experenced bad b4. When her butt go out there and find a bad dude, she’ll be running back. Or when he don’t pay her any attention, which ever comes first

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