Men Love Bitches

I’m sick of hearing women complain about the lack of good men that are in the dating pool. There are six and a half billion people on the Earth, almost half of which are males. I think it’s safe to say there is not a shortage in men. If you find yourself constantly attracting the bad boy types who break your heart, or the no-good lying cheats, perhaps it’s not the men: it’s probably you. Now, I know this may sound a bit harsh but that is the reality of the situation. A man will only treat you how you allow him to treat you. If a man is lying to you, cheating on you, or is abusive in any way and you allow that behavior to persist, you are sending the message that that behavior is okay. If you want a man to respect you, respect yourself. Don’t put up with sub par treatment in any fashion.

The women who are able to stand their ground and stand up to men who mistreat them are the ones that don’t get mistreated by men. Men love bitches. And I mean “bitch” in the most positive sense of the word: an assertive woman. A woman who is a doormat is going to attract men that will not treat her the way she should be treated. If you encounter a man who is not right for you, as hard is it may be, you must let him go. Staying in an unhealthy relationship is not helping you at all. Don’t diminish your self-worth. Find someone who can build you up rather than tearing you down.

Some women are scared to be opinionated and strong and don’t want to emasculate a man. You don’t have to be a bra-burning feminist to be able to state your opinions, tell a man how you feel and stand your ground. Don’t be afraid to have your voice be heard. At the end of the day, the only thing a person can really do is disagree with your opinion or respect it. But you cannot allow someone to mistreat you; there are enough people in this world for you to find a man that can treat you exactly how you deserve to be treated.

Janice Gassam is a graduate student currently getting her degree in Industrial Organizational Psychology. To contact Janice her email is gassamjz@gmail.com
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3 Comments

  1. The women who are able to stand their ground and stand up to men who mistreat them are the ones that don’t get mistreated by men.

    This is something that needs to be said over and over again.

    If women would just walk away the moment a man does something that is unpleasing to them, there would be no more bad relationships.

    The drama and unhappiness comes from attempting to stay and change people who don’t want to be changed.

    Bravo Janice

  2. As a women being a “bitch” how can I stop the guy that I like replying to my text messages when he feels like it? Or sometime he dose not replie at all

  3. Stop sending him text messages. He is not the only man in the world. Don’t make someone your everything when you are clearly just an option. You are probably leaving him a hundred mesages and text mails of why he is not returning them which gives him all the power. Cut him off as he has clearly cut you off.

    People will treat you as you allow them to treat you and it clear that you are obsolete in his thought process. People don’t treaat people they care about like that Monica.

    Look in the mirror everyday when you get up and tell yourself I am worthy of being loved, happy, and being treated with respect. Make that a habit of hearing yourself say that and it will become a habit of you believing it and eventually you will act it out.

    I bet if you take a look at this relationship between you two you will find that you don’t even like this guy this much it’s just that we can’t take rejection and he is clearly rejecting you so you are feeling I will show him I am going to make him love me. No your not Monica spare yourself some time and pain and move on.

    My mother always told me if something is meant for you you have to let it go sometimes and if it is meant for you it will come back to you and if not then use it as a learning experience and move on. Women we have to take our power back and stop allowing these men to think they can do whatever they want to with us and to us.

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