If you’ve never found yourself in a situation where a man lied about his involvement with you – consider yourself lucky. It’s one of the most degrading feelings ever. To be completely innocent and in the dark to the lies being spread about you isn’t one I’d wish on any woman.
I just don’t get it. Is it that bad in any man’s life that he must lie about who he has dated and slept with? Is there a law against it? There should be.
It’s already difficult for woman in professional settings who are honestly working their way to the top. If she’s too successful too quick, people ultimately assume that she slept her way to the top. What she doesn’t need is a lying man adding fuel to the assumptions. It’s not fair to her.
Men who lie on ‘it’ are true embarrassments to real men. It almost become the most recognizable characteristic of a clown. Either you got it or you don’t and if you don’t, figure out what you need to do to get the bare minimum of a woman. Obviously you have to lie about being with a woman because you’re not good enough to get her.
If you’ve ever lied about your involvement with a woman, you should seriously curl up in a corner from shame. And as a woman, if you’ve ever been lied on, find a peace to not lose your cool and not go Tami, Evelyn or Chrissy on him.
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