In the spirit of Lil’ Wayne, T.I and even Shawty Lo, who all have several children by several different women, (Rapper Shawty Lo has ten kids. Why? 8 out 10 are in the picture) I want to warn men on how becoming a “breeder” will decrease your stock value in the world of dating. What is a breeder you ask? Think back to slavery when the Master would choose one slave who was physically strong and appeared to have good genes and would force him to procreate with several different women therefore making several different babies. The same crap is going on in our day and age only now the men are making several different babies with several different women by choice not force. For a woman that is a mover and shaker that may not be appealing and can quickly lessen your chances of being hubbied up. My advice to you fellas is to be careful where you are slanging that slong or even better to wear a rubber to prevent yourself from being a future guest on the Maury Show. Before you say I’m a hating ass female who does not want to give a brother a chance let me tell you that I have given the hardworking brother with a bunch of damn kids and baby mothers a chance before. Unfortunately it was not worth the trouble on every occasion. The reality is that in many cases it won’t be. Surprise! The following are the reasons why being a walking talking sperm supplier is not attractive…
1. You are a walking talking piece of baggage. It is not an attractive quality. When I would first meet a guy one of the initial questions I would ask him was how many kids does he have? If the answer was more than one then the second question would be how many baby mommas? The idea of having to deal with numerous baby mothers and a bunch of damn kids is not at all appealing . It sounds like baggage to my ears and possible drama. For the guys who are always complaining about their baby mothers, I have one thing to say. No one cares how crazy your baby mother is! I feel no sympathy for you. You should have figured that out beforehand.. Took the time to get to know her before you had 3 or 4 kids with her. Or, after you had one and she started to show you that she was a nutcase… I don’t know maybe stop messing with her. You damn sure don’t get her pregnant again and again. Here is a clue, get to know the women before you make a child with her. My question to these guys who claim they have crazy Baby moms is “ how did you make three kids with her and just now figure out that this chick is crazy?” There is only so long a crazy person can hide their true nature.
2. It makes me assume that you obviously do not believe in wearing condoms. There are too many diseases in this world to play the pokeyman game with no protection. So, if you have several kids by several different women then in my mind, condoms are not your friend. Which makes you nasty. Slanging penis around like that could lead you to catching something more serious than a kid.
3. Unless your name is T.I , Shawty Lo, (who has something like 10 kids, wtf) or Weezy, you are probably not pulling in the funds necessary to raise several children and or pay several child support claims. Kids can’t live off Disney dollars and neither can I. Keeping it moving!
4. I date you then I am dating your several baby mothers. Depending on how serious you get with a guy with several kids you have to meet their kids and the kids mothers. There are some cool baby mothers and then there are some not so cool ones. The ones who aren’t completely over the guy and therefore find any reason to hate the girl he is dating are the not so cool ones. I cannot imagine having to deal with that times 2, 3 or even 4! I can’t handle it! Nor do I have the patience to deal with another woman or women who in there mind will always be your girl. Get that Heather Headley crap out of here.
5. Not only do I have to share you with several kids I have to share you with several other women. That’s a lot of damn people. Even if you aren’t with any of your kids Mother they still will be vying for your attention because that’s how most women are by nature. For instance if a guy has four kids by four different women then that is 8 other individuals that I have to share your time, money, attention with. Unless you are Superman that is going to be draining for you as well.
6. The assumption that you probably do not believe in stable relationships and commitment is in the forefront of my mind. If you have bounced from woman to woman without making any type of commitment, i.e. marriage, engagement, something! Then the chance that you aren’t too keen on commitment is high. In fact, one could assume from your track record that you are one of those guys who is out on the hunt for a piece of that juicy fruit. Some women will keep it moving based on that alone.
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