Some months ago when the Essence article featuring Kim Porter and Sean Diddy Combs hit the stands, I wanted to tackle the reasons why I thought this man refused to commit to Kim and the family they were raising. Because I had not fully made up my mind, I put the subject aside and went about business as usual. However, seeing as though the Kim Diddy union has officially come to an end, yet again, I think now would be a perfect time to delve into why women like Kim end up mothers (I hate the term babymama) before they end up wives. For me this issue goes far beyond Kim and Diddy as Kim is just one of many sistas who have children but no husband to go along with those children.
Diddy as well, seems to be just one of many men who also have children with a woman and even live with that woman, yet won’t fully commit to building a stable home with that woman and their children. As usual, I have decided to hold off on giving my thoughts and instead ask that my visitors, both male and female, share why it is you think Diddy (and many men like him) refuse to marry the women they so easily sleep with and make children with. And to make things a little more interesting, I have made this topic todays poll question.
Poll Question Of The Day