Reason #1,678,926,345,647 Why You Should Never Date A Rapper

They don’t know when to keep their mouths shut. Rapper Young Jeezy is featured on the latest cover of Vibe Magazine and according to reports, goes into far greater detail about his relationship with Keyshia Cole, than I believe any mature man should have. When discussing the seriousness of his relationship with the singer, the rappers reportedly said “Keyshia asked me to marry her, bought me a ring and everything. She not gonna tell you different,”. “I was grown enough to tell her, Look baby, that isn’t what it is right now. I’m trying to get my shit together. I’m trying to get my money, take care of me and mine.” Now did we need to know all that? Of course not! But young Jeezy is just that- young. He is like a 15 year old getting his first piece of ass and running back telling all his friends so he can look like a big man. Female celebrities have to be especially weary of who they get involved with because just like that all your personal business can be out in the street.

All it takes is for one little boy to run off at the mouth about private things you said and did with and to each other and just like that- the world knows things you probably didn’t want them to know. If Keyshia wanted us to know she proposed to him or was sprung she would have told us herself. Clearly she considered whatever happened between them private- too bad Young Jeezy didn’t.

Anyway- in other KC news, the singer, who was spotted by photogs working out with her trainer in Miami, is scheduled to take the stage this weekend at the Essence Music Festival and has also signed up to appear at the July 18th Reggae Sumfest in Jamaica.


63 Comments

  1. Stephanie,

    That ain’t nothing but the truth, I was on another wesbite where there was a story about rapper/actor Fredro Star going into detail about Singer Brandy he said “Brandy didn’t let me hit it because she was messing with Wanye at the time but she gave good head”..I can’t stand negros that kiss and tell, I think it’s so damn disrespectful to put someone else’s business on front street, I also find it very juvinile and immature for a man to go around bragging on his sexual advantures, real men don’t tell.

  2. I think this applies to everyone. It is always best to get to know a person as much as you can before engaging in sex with that person. Some women are also guilty of doing this and are just as bad as the men. They are in it for the sport of it. Just take a look at all the Groupies these celebs have. But for women like myself, it is always better to invest your time wisely. Because for me it is not so much what he says after the fact, but the package that I may have to deal with . I am just too paranoid about getting STDs or AIDS.
    I also believe that a lot of celebs partake in drugs and alcohol, which can lead to making bad decisions.

  3. I disagree with this statement, “They [rappers] don’t know when to keep their mouths shut”. It generalizes rappers. Generalization is ALWAYS a big NO NO. You put ALL rappers in ONE box when they are INDIVIDUALS. Jay is rapper [among other things], yet some complain he and his wife are too tight lip about their personal lives.

    Young Jeezy is wrong, and he is out of line because he puts his personal relationship with Miss Cole on blast this way. He is not wrong because he’s a rapper. He’s wrong because of his flawed judgment & character.

    As for Miss Cole, she’ll move on to hopefully bigger& better things. I doubt this mess will affect her. It will, however, affect his big mouth [Not in a positive way].

  4. He is total wrong for telling such an intimate detail of their relationship..especially since it is something he knows may hurt Keisha and maybe something she wanted to be kept private. I think men who talk about who they have been with have low self esteem and talking somehow makes then feel like they are “the man” when in reality it makes them look immature, foolish and desperate for attention.

  5. I agree with SnijanaFleur…

    All that has nothing to do with being a rapper. Look at the situation between 50 Cent and Vivica Fox when she couldn’t keep her mouth shut for anything. And now that 50 down talks her and everyone is aware that she was head over hills for him after 9 months, then it’s like, she wants people to “feel sorry” for her.

    I do agree what Jeezy did was messed up though. But that’s probably because he is that immature. WOW!

  6. I don’t think it’s all rappers but just immature, ignorant ass men acting like junior high school boys in the locker room.

  7. ahahaha!!

    Stephanie, luv how you did “YOUNG” in bold!! It’s all in a name, right?!!

    She should’ve known- you mess with dirt, your name gets thrown in the mud.

    I personally don’t believe him. Keysh would have to confirm that statement for me to. Some guys will say things just because most of the public will believe him JUST cause he’s a man.

    Anywho, Keysh looks great gettin her little jog on. Think I’ma go for mine today though I said I would chill.

  8. It has nothing to do with him being a rapper. He is just an immature jerk. Obviously he must have a new CD dropping and needs the publicity to help his sales.

  9. Hip Hop fosters an environment of contempt for women and teaches men that it is cool to never grow up. I agree with Stephanie totally. Celebrity sistas should never date these childish ass rappers. Show me one that isn’t a big ass baby? Ok Common, but who else? I don’t even consider him rap. For years rappers have been putting their sexual exploits out there for the world to see so I ain’t shocked Jeezy ratted Keyshia out while making it look like she was so much more into him than he was into her. I bet John Legend would never do something like this.

  10. As my grandfather used to say, if you lay down with a dirty dog, you will come up with flees.
    I am pretty sure Ms. Keisha learned a valuable lesson from this one.

  11. Keyshia shouldn’t even respond to his comment. I think anyone with good sense knows that this was his way of getting attention. If what he said is true, Keyshia is probably thanking God that she isn’t involved with someone this immature. In a couple of years, he’ll probably be broke and he will still be as ugly as he is right now (inside and out).

  12. I don’t think Young Jeezy needed to go into details about his relationship with Keyshia…but it wasn’t as bad as Fredo’s remarks about Brandy and then have the nerve to say Brandy and Ray J are his peoples. If that’s the case why you would put her on blast like that. Gotta love supposedly grown men!!

  13. I’m sorry but I feel like this about a lot of rappers. I know you can’t catagorize ALL rappers but a good amount of them do this. Jay-z did talk about CARMEN as well as Nas. And I am surprised that Ciara is/was dating 50 the way he talked about Vivica. Look at the way mase talked about Brandy, Biggie and faith. It’s a sad truth but the only rapper that really seems trustworthy is Will Smith……………………I know I know just jokin’ 😉

  14. In other news, how is that little sports bra holdin up them tig ol biddies. I have to get good supporting Sports bras, b/c otherwise it hurts.

  15. jeezy’s 1 ugly young boi on top of that with a Ne-Yo 4head (yahh b!tch yahh) dang he gets on my nerves lol 4 real ya’ll

  16. Funny you’re having this conversaton…..Just spoke with a friend about guys with a “hip hop” mentalities. I don’t know any paid rappers but I am related to and have been friends with men of differing soico-economic levels who spit rhymes for fun and/or in hopes for fame & fortune. What I have observed is whether they can be cateogorized as thugs or back packer types, they think they are gods!

    No matter how nice or fun-loving they may be, I always find there is a streak of pride, arrogance, and anger that surfaces during “heated intellectual debates” that I can not tolerate. On closer inspection, I find they are fervently trying to create or re-shape their identities with their own moral code of do-it-yourself afrocentric spiritual mix of Islam, Judeo-Chrisitian, Black Isrealite, ancient Egyptian junk that gets on my last nerve.

    Just read an article on another site about Mos Def’s estranged wife Alana Wyatt-Smith who has kiss and told on his butt. The columnist says Ms. Smith characterized Mos as having a “demanding but not abusive demeanor that she found hard to abide.” She said she could not submit to this. I don’t blame her.

  17. First he is LYING. Keisa did and inteview FIRST where she claimed a guy (that she did NOT name) proposed to her and she was excited but felt it wasn’t the right time. He is TRYING (and FAILING) to save face.

  18. First of all, it doesn’t surprise me that some young, punky-a$$ trying-to-be is doing something like this to gain attention, doing some self promoting for his up coming CD, and to show off in front of his friends. He will especially show off if Ms. Cole just happens to be older than he is. I just don’t know what their ages are. If someone will please be so kind as to inform me as to what Ms. Cole’s age is and the age of this particular gentlemen ( and I use the term “gentleman” very, very loosely in this case ).
    Secondly, I don’t know, I’m sure all you ladies can relate to this: it’s the biblical account of Noah and The Flood. Hear me out, please.
    We all know how the Bible says that God came to Noah and tolod him to build an Ark because he (God ) was going to make it rain for 40 days and 40 nights nonstop! Then God told Noah to get a male and female of every animal there is, put them in the ark . God also told Noah to get in the ark along with his wife, their sons and their wives too. After that, it rained like crazy. To make a long story short, when the flood went away, and the ark came to rest on Mount Ararat, Noah came out of thr ark, planted some grape vines, took the grapes and made some wine, drank all the wine and got so drunk that he passed out nude on the floor of his tent. His son, Ham, came and saw Noah, he ran out and told his 2 brothers that Noah was drunk and in the nude! Ladies, what was Ham doing?? HE WAS Gossiping!! The moral of the story is that if you want your business all over the place, then tell a man.

  19. I DONT KNOW WHAT KEYSHIA SAW IN HIM ANY WAYS! HE NEED TO BE TRYING TO CLEAR UP HIS LEGAL ISSUES INSTEAD OF TALKING ABOUT SOMEBODY!!! WIT HIS UGLY AZZ!!!!

  20. @Stef said:

    You didn’t have too repeat the story of what that guy said about Brandy. I think that was his whole purpose was to get people too repeat it a million times. I am not coming down on you just be careful what you repeat.

    This guy could be lying. I think one thing rappers have been quiet about is their intimate life. That is why they were all so mad at that lady for writing that book. Because most of them are married and they don’t want their wives to know what really goes on on those video shoots.

    I think this guy and that other guy is trying too keep their names in print. But now maybe Ray J will know what it feels like too have someone he loves disrespected in public. All of these so call tapes that he makes and how he likes too tell of his escapades those women are someone’s sister as well. I think it we should not even comment on this story after today. This guy is jealous because his star is fading and Keisha’s is just beginning too shine.

  21. Smooth Thug I am smelling an excuse from you. Does Keyshia, or any woman for that matter, have to tell a man to keep the details of a relationship private? Has the world come to that? I thought some things were common sense.

  22. First off every one thats going at young jeezy is in the wrong. Ms. Cole was the first one to talk about their relationship and how she didn’t feel like she was ready when he proposed. No one said anything negative about her and her comments, but now that he is saying his piece everyone has a problem with it. In my mind she should have never opened the door by revealing anything about their relationship. She said she turned him down, he said he turned her down whats the difference. What’s good for the gander is good for the goose.

  23. As for me I am in place right now to know alot of celebrity business and believe you me these young guys, rappers, even the ones being tight liped, are cheaters. Not only is this wrong but not safe, there are alot of sexually transmitted diseases and I only pray these women wise up an really protect thier selves!!!!!!

  24. Wether Young jeezy, Jay Z, R. kelly, lil wayne
    All And i do mean All rappers cheats Wich is why 98.00 percents of the women they date are mostly there just to get theirs…. Even THose that don’t kiss and tell sure as hell cheat…. sometimes the most.
    If you choose to make your bed in the mud why in the hell are you surprise that you get up dirty ????
    Alot of women idolize these random negroes [and i’m being polite] they love them a thug and “if its status aint hood ” they don’t wanna hear none from them . I ‘m not mad at him Because Any woman , Any real woman know a punk ass when she sees one, a woman is supposed to know a motherfucker when she comes accross one and if he doesn’t show his real colors Sometimes in the relationship they are signs that shows you what to do
    WHY IN THE HELL DID SHE BUY HIM A RING AND PROPOSE TO HIM ?
    what kind of desperate woman does that ? I tought keyshia had way more class then that She should have done it a la beyonce and wait until the negro had his share of booties and propose to her The esteem i had for her went down completely …No woman in 2008 should beg a man and try to buy his love No Real woman!!!!!!!

  25. Wether Young jeezy, Jay Z, R. kelly, lil wayne …

    All And i do mean All rappers cheats [and one is a hell of a fool to believe otherwise ] Wich is why 98.00 percents of the women they date are mostly there just to get theirs…. Even THose that don’t kiss and tell sure as hell cheat…. sometimes the most.

    If you choose to make your bed in the mud why in the hell are you surprise that you get up dirty ????

    A lot of women idolize these random negroes [and i’m being polite] they love them a thug and “if his status aint hood ” they don’t wanna hear none from them .
    I ‘m not mad at him Because Any woman , Any real woman know a punk ass when she sees one, a woman is supposed to know a motherfucker when she comes accross one and if he doesn’t show his real colors Sometimes in the relationship they are signs that shows you what to do …

    WHY IN THE HELL DID SHE BUY HIM A RING AND PROPOSE TO HIM ?

    what kind of desperate woman does that ? I tought keyshia had way more class then that She should have done it a la beyonce and wait until the negro had his share of booties and propose to her The esteem i had for her went down completely …No woman in 2008 should beg a man and try to buy his love No Real woman!!!!!!!

    How you going to propose to a man that will wear a baggy even in his casquet ?

    Keyshia Upgrade sista And learn to love yourself MOre than anyone else…..

  26. Wow Steph! I don’t see how she can jog like that. I need a regular bra and a sports bra

  27. It’s to my understanding that in Keyshia’s interview {about being proposed to}, she DID NOT mention names. Is this true or not?

    If it is… then Jeezy shouldn’t have spoken of the relationship (but also, even if she did, you’d think he’d be mature enough to not speak of the details of their time together… both of them should have kept their mouths shut.)

    I just think I remember Keyshia not being clear in her interview as to whom she was referring to (people were speculating whether or not she was speaking of Jeez or a previous relationship but because news had just recently broken of she and Jeezy “breaking up”… the public ran with it as her speaking of him {Jeezy}.)

  28. Ms. “Stephanie”, sweetheart, I’m sorry that I failed to do a better job of explaining how I feel about loud mouth men. To me, they are among the lowest of the low. Any man who engages in the behavior that Young Jeezey engaged in is immature, self-centered and is incapable of thinking of any other person but himself. Such behavior is deplorable and inexcusable. I merely used the biblical account of Noah and The Flood to show how a man can be the biggest gossiper and sh_t starter on the face of this earth. When Ham walked in on Noah and saw that he was drunk and in the nude, did Ham immediately cover Noah? No! He hurried straight to his brothers as fast as he could and blabbed Noah’s business to anyone and everyone who would listen. This is what Young Jeezey did to Ms. Cole; he spilled Ms. Cole’s beans all over the place. He did it totally on purpose and in a malicious, pernicious, and perjorative manner. I totally agree 100% with you that a woman shouldn’t have to tell a man to honor and respect their privacy. Any mature, reasonable, logical man with some sense will automatically know, in his heart, that it is a matter of personal integrity and a direct reflection on his sense of propriety and chivalry to hold any lady’s privacy in the highest regard. Ms. “Stephanie”, I hope I have done a better job in making things a little bit more clear.
    Be blessed,
    Smooth Thug

  29. No you didn’t post this topic. I was just having this convo about the last issue of Vibe because Usher talks too much too.

    Anyway my mother has always told me to NEVER mess with a man that doesn’t know how to “keep his trap closed” lol. She is so right, I can’t stand for a man to run his mouth especially about MY business.

    I’m sorry but if Keyshia is still with this dude she’s crazy. I mean his statements contradict everything she has tried to portray. She was in sister to sister saying that he(she didn’t say his name but we knew) wanted to marry her and she refused so clearly someone is lying but we’ll never know who I guess????

  30. man i would love to ask keyshia or anyone else in here for that matter…..where can i find some good sports bras that ain’t cutting off the circulation. working with some DD’s and i can never find one that feels right. either i feel like it’s gonna pop in any minute or when i run they pop out…..(good thing i run with a t-shirt on….do a tuck and roll and keep it moving) or i feel like i’m choking when i put them on.

    help a chick out.

    oh and i really don’t know what to say about this. i read about this on another site earlier. i don’t care much. but that is hella grimey for jeezy to do that. very disrespectful and immature on his part. i guess really cuz when a woman proposes it kinda makes her seem desperate or head over heels in love. which might not be the case everytime but that’s what comes to mind. i think jeezy has nothing much going on right now so he just wants to shittalk. if you are a REAL MAN you would never open u your mouth about your past lady-friends. if anything “yeah i know her” or “we knew each other other….she’s cool.” past that is too much information. at least to me. keyshia aint gonna respond because she’s too grown for that. she’s level headed………..she’s not about the drama…..as we all know from her tv show…..so i doubt she’ll even acknowledge him and his retarded statement.

    apple juice is going ghost.

  31. There’s nothing desperate about a woman proposing to a man, this is a new day and women do this more and more and many men love this and don’t find anything wrong with wearing an engagement ring!!

    Anyway, back to the rappers. I understand that generalizing is wrong, but in a few cases, generalizations are TRUE. Like, MOST men wouldn’t date a woman shorter than them, it’s a fact, a generalization indeed but also a fact. MOST rappers are immature men-boys, it has to do with their background. Most of these guys have been overspoiled by mama to compensate for the absence of daddy at home, they believe they can get away with ANYTHING, they don’t grow up and remain irresponsible because everybody wanna find excuses for their behavior. They kiss and tell like boys because that’s what they are. They never had a male figure to show them what manhood is about, so they act hard and inferiorize women cause they believe that’s what manhood is all about. Most of these cats have NO knowledge, NO substance, can’t express themselves properly, worry about keeping their “hood status” intact, and only have pimpin’ ambition. Most of them refuse to change. Of course you don’t have to be a rapper to be that immature, but if we’re talking about rappers specifically most of them ARE immature because of the environment they’ve always evolved in.

    Unless they’re Common or Talib (how many of them can we find? let’s be real) women shouldn’t consider dating them if they really want privacy. Keyshia is paying the price (and Jeezy has been kind compared to others) and because of her background she stays with what is familiar to her (hope she’ll see the light soon enough), Vivica paid the price, Brandy paid the price, if Ciara really is dating 50 cent she will pay the price. The list goes on.

  32. I know that generalizations are wrong, but in a few cases they are TRUE. Like, MOST men wouldn’t date a woman shorter than them, it’s a generalization, but it’s also a FACT. MOST rappers are immature mama’s boys, that has to do with their background. MOST rappers have been overspoiled by their mamas to compensate for the absence of daddy at home, they think they can get away with ANYTHING because everybody and their mama wanna find excuses for their behavior. They kiss and tell like boys to boost their egos cause that’s exactly what they are : little immature boys! They grew up with no male figure to show them what manhood is all about, so they act hard and inferiorize women thinking that’s what manhood is all about. And to top it all they’re arrogant cause everybody and their mama praises them. Most of them refuse to change. Most of them have NO knowledge, NO substance, can’t speak properly, obsess over keeping their “hood” status intact, and have pimpin’ ambition. Most rappers became this way because of the environment they evolved in.

    That’s what I think, unless he’s Common or Talib (how many of them can we find? let’s be honest) women should NEVER consider dating a rapper. Keyshia paid the price (and Jeezy has been nice compared to most) and she stays with what is familiar to her (hope she’ll see the light soon enough), Brandy paid the price, Vivica paid the price, Ciara will pay the price if she really dates 50. The list goes on. Ladies should stay away from them.

  33. Oh yeah another thing, I know rappers aren’t the only immature men, there are all “types” of immature men. You can find an immature banker as wel for examplel. But since we’re talking about rappers *specifically* in this topic, are most rappers immature? My answer is YES, MOST of them ARE immature. At least imo.

  34. Have I said something wrong? My previous post has been deleted twice.

  35. Umm sorry Brownsista, my computer was probably acting up I see my post now. 🙂

  36. Great things are happening for Keyshia now. what is really happpening for him(not much)? Haters come in the male form too.
    Keyshia, as much as everyone says she is a tough business woman, wears her heart on her sleeve. She trusted him and it was a mistake. Its sad that the people around you are the ones you should watch out for.

    Your worst enemy could be your best friend, and your best friend your worst enemy.-Bob Marley

    As much as people think that Keyshia is ghetto and has no class, she is STILL too good for him.

  37. I don’t see my initial post anymore, what’s going on? 🙁

  38. First, I agree with the fact that it is not good to make generalizations about rappers and their ability to shut their mouth. There are rappers that I have never heard speak ill of women. I could be wrong but I have never heard Common or Dwele ever talk about who they have been with in a way that is embarrassing to the other person and I am sure there are many other rappers out there that you can say the same about.
    However let’s not forget where the generalization about men in rap have come from, the men themselves. It was not too long ago that two grown men (Jay-Z and Nas) were putting the personal business of a woman that they had both slept with out in the street and unless I am mistaken Jay-Z even made reference to a condom and a baby’s carseat. Then you have Tupac and Biggie talking all kinds of mess about Faith Evans and in each of these cases there was a child involved.
    So while I do agree in not generalizing, when the 4 most successful and talented rappers in history show themselves in that kind of light and then have the “artists” who have come after them talking about how many women from music videos they have slept with its kind of hard to throw a pity party for them.

  39. Thats just out of order of him to put there business out on the street like that….

    But hey, when folk don’t know when to shut there mouths……

    By the way, Fredo star is just out to get some publicity, how childish is he to come out with something like that, look how long ago that was….. Ni99a get a life…..

    Oh and what Wayne is he talking bout, that bit had me confused….????

  40. First off, who the hell is Fredo Star???
    Second, Jeezy aint nothing but blabber-mouthed, fugged-faced negro. N*gga need to know when and to shut the f*ck up. Cant stand men like him. Always running they damn mouth and wonder why most women dont have any form of respect for them.
    It’s ok Keyshia, I still got your back. Just tell yourself to “Let it gooooo!!”.

  41. @ Miss T
    Freddro Starr was talking about Wanya, from Boyz II Men. Him and brandy were together for while ……actually i think they went out twice. so that’s what he was blabbin about.

  42. Some men just can’t take a woman being successful…SMH. Just like the earlier post that mentioned Fredro & Mase dissin Brandy. Both Keyshia and Brandy’s music are still on heavy rotation and where are these fellas?

  43. Hi Ms. “Juicy Juice”. I sure missed you.

  44. You didn’t have too repeat the story of what that guy said about Brandy. I think that was his whole purpose was to get people too repeat it a million times. I am not coming down on you just be careful what you repeat.

    **************************************
    @BEE,

    I didn’t make this story up nor did it come from my mouth and furthermore it’s already out there so it really doesn’t matter how many times it’s repeated, women should be more careful about who they lay down with.

  45. LMAO…Regardless of all the back and forth on the subject. Jezzy is using her as a self-esteem booster. It is no way in the world, he should be discussing intimate details with the public. However, you have to research who your dealing with. All men/women aren’t good people. People have their own agenda, in most cases. She needs to move on and deal with her music and buisnesses. If she wants change in her life, letting go of her view of what a real man is ,where she should start. You can tell by what a man/women is saying from the jump what type of person they are.The issue is what people need vs what they want. She may have wanted his ass but she sure as hell didn’t need him or the BS that came with him.Some men/women like drama. I don’t believe the story about asking him to marry him but obviously he needed the attention!

  46. Sorry Jazzi, I was thinking of someone else and mispoke.

  47. its a good thing she didnt marry his bitch acting ass.. what a real pussy. kissing and telling is a no no jeezy ask yo boys lolol

  48. @ smooth thug

    what is up dude-o. lol. didn’tknow i was missed but here i “iz”! lol!

    okay this isfor anyone to answer. juicy has come up on a few dolla bills. i have much more saved somewhere but that is besides the point. i want to buy a great rnb album. if you have any suggestions please tell me.

    i thik i have it narrowed down to maxwell. i love this mans music…i just don’t kow which one of his albums i should buy. so let me now.

    diddy is juicy juice….out!

    ghost!

  49. keyshia needs to up her standards. she doesnt have to go for the “thug”-type anymore. she needs to find a real man that wants all the things she wants like marriage & kids and a man who is mature & respects her & her privacy.
    & she definitely doesnt need someone in the industry. celebs are good for running their mouths when it benefits them & bashes someone else. thats a low down dirty shame what jeezy did…but its expected of him…he’s being the stereotypical rapper…LOUD, “I’M SO HOOD”, WOMANIZING “PLAYAS”…….*shaking my head*

  50. Ms. “diddy kong”, anything by Maxwell sounds good. Me, myself, after I finish filling my gas tank with this $70, if I have any money left over, I’m gonna get me “The Clones Of Dr. Funkenstein”. Because “funk is not domestically produced. It is responsive to your mood. You can score it any day on radio station WEFUNK.” As you can see, I likes my music with some Psychoalphadiscobetabioaquadoloop in it. I know that you know what I’m talkin’ ’bout ’cause you are too cute.

  51. keyshia needs to up her standards. she doesnt have to go for the “thug”-type anymore. she needs to find a real man that wants all the things she wants like marriage & kids and a man who is mature & respects her & her privacy.
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    @CODY

    The sad thing is this is the kind of men Keshia probably likes, keep in mind that Keyshia is very hood and I guaruntee if a clean cut, well spoken, college educated brotha stepped to her she would’t be interested, I think some women are just attracted to a certain kind of man.

  52. This is a clip of an interview done with Laura London a while back with King Magazine, VERY DISTURBING..I didn’t realize she was soo stupid!
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    KING: So you want a man who’s both honest and thug?

    London: An authentic gangsta—that deletes about half the rap game off your list. I love guys who are street. I won’t even give soft guys a chance. Menace II Society is my shi*! Caine was like my first crush. Actually, O-Dog was my true dream guy. I was in love with him, from that opening scene where he pops the convenience-store worker. He had me from that gunshot [laughs]. He was ’hood, and I loved that

  53. Stef…Wow
    That is indeed disturbing. I’m not familiar with her, but ANY woman who love this way is lost in my book.

    “I was in love with him, from that opening scene where he pops the convenience-store worker”.
    I see she loves murderers among other…criminals

  54. the first couple of comments were right… its just the ego of a man..an immature man at that.. im 19 and i dont have much experience but i know that much.
    its weird because i was watching the tyra show the other day and all the men were saying the same they have been saying for years about sistahs, attitudes, no support blah blah blah
    but what ever happened to showing respect?
    theres too many niggas nowadays and not enough men!

  55. i see where you coming from stef….she probably wouldnt give the “good guy” a chance….but i still hope she at least ups her standards a little bit! she needs to learn from her mistakes….unless she’s looking for new material for her next album!

  56. sad for a 30something year old man.

    This is why women just don’t trust guys.

    But she’ll be OK! That’s MISS COLE!

  57. @ smooth thug
    yeah. maxwell is the bomb…..by the way seeing as he was at the BET awards…..i never really realized how he kinda has a small nose……weird maybe but i was just looking there for some reason. as for me being too cute….well i guess, if you say so.

    funktastic……..might have to go and get a turntable and start buying records instead of cds so much. little juicy might turn into a dj.

    i’ve gotten so way off topic it’s not even funny. peace out though.

    ghost.

  58. i see where you coming from stef….she probably wouldnt give the “good guy” a chance….but i still hope she at least ups her standards a little bit! she needs to learn from her mistakes….unless she’s looking for new material for her next album!
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    @ CODY,

    I agree let’s hope she learns her lesson next time around…unless she’s looking for new material..funny!

  59. I agree with you Stef
    Real Men don’t tell their personal business like that to no one,and that is very
    disrepectful to the other person in the relationship.
    But you have to remenber the times that we live in,amist this twisted and backward
    generation,where good is bad,and bad is good.
    And for most of these Rapers disrespecting women is the norm for most of them,for some twisted reason they think it’s cool,it’s hip,and it’s o’ kay for the most part,as lone as it’s not
    one their sistas,mothers,grandmothers,daugthers ,and etc,then it’s all good as they say.
    We moved far from the time where repect for women was thought in the home,in the schools.
    Most of these gun toting Rapers have to disrespect and belittle woman if their going to be veered,repected by other men,they have to become a made man,what ever that means,real men know when to speak,and when not to speak,unfortunately most of these Rapers don’t have the sense God gave a Tic-Tac.

  60. I think it is just poor judgement when our celebrities do this sort of thing. The last thing we need is our celebrity brothers hurting our celebrity sisters. We already have enough issues.

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