Rihanna’s never ending quest to prove how much of a bad girl she is continues with her interview in the recent issue of Rolling Stone magazine. The 23 year old pop diva held nothing back- telling her interviewer every intricate detail about her sex life, including the fact that she likes to be dominated, spanked and sexually humiliated.
No doubt this bit of news will cause controversy, mostly because of her “mishap” with Chris Brown. An abuse victim telling the word she likes to be man handled whether in or out of bed is just bad. Rihanna should have shut her mouth and kept this to herself. The public doesn’t need to know and it won’t help her sell anymore records to the S&M crowd than she already does right now.
And before anyone comes to her defense by saying her desire to be spanked and tied in bed has nothing to do with being attacked outside of the bedroom- let me say that I agree. Sex play and a beat down are obviously two different things. This however does not take away from the fact that Rihanna should not have disclosed these hidden desires to mix sex and violence- not even mild forms of violence.
In my opinion, despite all of Rihanna’s fame, beauty and success, it just still isn’t enough for her. Somewhere deep down she feels the need to continuously use shock value to get the public’s attention. She’s also clearly still willing to use Chris Brown’s name… when it suits her agenda.
Interview excerpts below…
Rihanna On Her Sexual Fantasies:
“Being submissive in the bedroom is really fun. You get to be a little lady, to have somebody be macho and in charge of your shit. That’s fun to me…I like to be spanked. Being tied up is fun. I like to keep it spontaneous. Sometimes whips and chains can be overly planned – you gotta stop, get the whip from the drawer downstairs. I’d rather have him use his hands.
Rihanna On Wanting A Man to Take Charge:
“I think I’m a bit masochistic. [The condition in which sexual gratification depends on suffering, physical pain, and humiliation]. I love feeling like I’m somebody’s girl. I think that is common in people who witnessed abuse in their childhood.”
Rihanna On Easing Up On the Restraining Order Against Chris Brown:
That’s my decision. It doesn’t mean we’re gonna make up, or even talk again. It just means I didn’t want to object to the judge.”
Rihanna On Her current Relationship With Chris:
“We don’t have to talk ever again in my life. I just didn’t want to make it more difficult for him professionally. What he did was a personal thing – it had nothing to do with his career. Saying he has to be a hundred feet away from me, he can’t perform at awards shows – that definitely made it difficult for him.