Comments on: Should You Forgive A Cheater?

By: Natalie

Natalie — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 16:59:51 +0000

I say forgive them and definitely leave the relationship. I forgave a cheater and he continued to cheat, over and over again. That created baggage that I tool to other relationshisp before I got over it. So, forgive that person and get out.

By: Dark Sista

Dark Sista — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 09:39:34 +0000

No, You shouldn’t.

By: allaboutme

allaboutme — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 02:26:36 +0000

i agree with BEE

By: BeeBee

BeeBee — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 01:57:47 +0000

Yikes!! I’m alarmed by the amount of naivety displayed in so many of these comments!! There IS a correct answer, that is NO! NO! NO! Never continue the relationship, unless u want an std, further embarrassment, or a repeated scenario! I love men, I love LOVE, so I’m not some angry feminist lesbian. I do however also believe in a woman’s duty to maintain her self worth. Stupid men jeopardize this self worth! While some of u may be thinking ‘bla bla bla’, I suggest u consider the spiral effect that compromising self worth will have on our future daughters etc! Be smart, proud, and happier by walking away ***

By: bee

bee — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 20:10:25 +0000

I have forgiven and I have been forgiven. For most people that cheat there is something that they are really missing or longing and just not getting. I am not making excuses but it’s just true. Sometimes you just loose yourself for a moment and sometimes you just want something different. I am sorry if anyone is offended. there is a difference between a one nite stand and an affair. An affair there was feelings and those don’t so easily go away. For that I would probably leave.